somedude81 Posted April 23, 2013 Posted April 23, 2013 There have been a few times where right before I asked somebody out or seriously thinking about it and the girl seemed to know and her behavior seemed to change. Sometimes I've had girls seem to get nervous and some gave me the feeling where they wanted to get away. All this before I did anything.
Jbum5 Posted April 23, 2013 Posted April 23, 2013 The answer is generally yes because lovesick fools are usually very obvious even if they don't think so themselves. Even if the individual swears on all counts that he is not obvious, some women tend to interpret certain actions as signs of interest from him. 3
Cogee Posted April 23, 2013 Posted April 23, 2013 Of course, it's not like when you ask someone out you pop up from under a table and spring it on them. You have to have some basis of interaction beforehand and generally if you are interested it will show in your behaviour.
Els Posted April 23, 2013 Posted April 23, 2013 Probably showed up in your body language or tone of voice.
Author somedude81 Posted April 23, 2013 Author Posted April 23, 2013 The answer is generally yes because lovesick fools are usually very obvious even if they don't think so themselves. Even if the individual swears on all counts that he is not obvious, some women tend to interpret certain actions as signs of interest from him. Heh, I'm definitely not lovesick for any of the girls I've asked out or been thinking about recently. Of course, it's not like when you ask someone out you pop up from under a table and spring it on them. You have to have some basis of interaction beforehand and generally if you are interested it will show in your behaviour. Yeah there is some interaction with all the girls. I try to be friendly and show an interest but also give them space. I'm certainly more sociable with the girls I like. What's also kind of weird is that I've been around girls for months that I was actual friends with and they had no idea I liked them. Does that mean if a guy isn't a friend it's easier to tell if he likes a girl?
mtber75 Posted April 23, 2013 Posted April 23, 2013 Oh yeah! Its like they have internal sensors that can detect your attractions to them!
mexcity Posted April 24, 2013 Posted April 24, 2013 Yep. I have noticed this too. Women have a sixth sense that tells them to run away before you get the chance to ask them out.
mesmerized Posted April 24, 2013 Posted April 24, 2013 yes absolutely, you men are usually much more obvious about it than you think.
HoneyBadgerDontCare Posted April 24, 2013 Posted April 24, 2013 yes absolutely, you men are usually much more obvious about it than you think. Unless we intend to be obvious. IMO, if I'm interested in a girl and she doesn't know, then I'm doing something wrong.
SJC2008 Posted April 24, 2013 Posted April 24, 2013 Women are better at reading body language than men. It's at a subconscious level so I don't know if they know for sure. Besides not all people are open with their body language around the opposite sex so you can even come accross as not interested. Did you see my "She said I didn't show interes" thread a few weeks ago? What was I supposed to do?
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