ViresSanctity Posted April 23, 2013 Posted April 23, 2013 I've taken her to all my favorite spots and have done all my favorite activities with her. Even tasks that are menial, I've done it all with her. Everything I do and everywhere I go reminds me of her. Even the house I'm living in and the bed I see is stained with her memories. The things that we haven't done that I want to do now, have been talked over and over with her every night. It hurts.
fiftyofsomethin Posted April 23, 2013 Posted April 23, 2013 I know exactly how you feel buddy. The memories are all there, what we were, what we are, what we could have been. It's painful and saddening to have these thoughts and to experience these things. But yet, as much as you have likely heard this a million times before, it is the only thing that I find helps: You must just focus on yourself now and improving yourself and just don't make her the only thing in your life. Trust me, when I was with my ex, she WAS my life. She was my everything. But now that I realize how that doesn't need to be true, I can now move on (hopefully). I wish you luck buddy! We can get through this! 2
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