ViresSanctity Posted April 23, 2013 Posted April 23, 2013 I don't mean to get yourself a rebound but involved in an actual relationship with potential. Did that ever work out? It's only been half a week since my break up, yes it's still fresh on my mind. I'm crushed by it. But I also am not going to let myself be tied down by it. I'm actually looking for that fun, that friendship and spark of the beginning of a relationship again. I haven't put myself in that situation yet so I'm just afraid I might be too sensitive right now and come off desperate.
thefooloftheyear Posted April 23, 2013 Posted April 23, 2013 Jusrt forget it. You might think that "filling that void" will immediately make things right again, but you are kidding yourself. This is why rebounds rarely work out. Its a weak way of dealing with this loss in your life, frankly and you possibly expose someone unwillingly to a position of heartbreak so you can fulfill your needs in desperation. Do yourself a favor. I noticed you posted in several threads and seem rather distraught. Its understandable. Regroup, focus on yourself and the things that caused relationship problems. If you think you feel low now, what happens if you fall for someone and get dumped in a month because she thinks you are too emotionally fragile? How do you think you will feel then? Lay low for a while. Find a hobby and forget about women until you are more emotionally ready. They pick up on that stuff and you will be dropped on your head. I wish you well TFY 4
Inviv_girl Posted April 23, 2013 Posted April 23, 2013 Jusrt forget it. You might think that "filling that void" will immediately make things right again, but you are kidding yourself. This is why rebounds rarely work out. Its a weak way of dealing with this loss in your life, frankly and you possibly expose someone unwillingly to a position of heartbreak so you can fulfill your needs in desperation. Do yourself a favor. I noticed you posted in several threads and seem rather distraught. Its understandable. Regroup, focus on yourself and the things that caused relationship problems. If you think you feel low now, what happens if you fall for someone and get dumped in a month because she thinks you are too emotionally fragile? How do you think you will feel then? Lay low for a while. Find a hobby and forget about women until you are more emotionally ready. They pick up on that stuff and you will be dropped on your head. I wish you well TFY I certainly agree with this, this is totally true! you are still fragile and too emotional now. To date new girl will not be fair for you or her. Surely you do not want to go back to "sad" feeling again when the new spark u wanted wont work! cheer up, enjoy your own life for the moment and work on why the last relationship didn't work to better urself for next relationship 1
TheFriend Posted April 23, 2013 Posted April 23, 2013 I am dating again but am clearly not mentally in it. The bad part about this is that it can come across as playing games with the person you are dateings mind. Which will make them want you even more because at is how ****ed up our minds are... 1
moneyneversleeps Posted April 23, 2013 Posted April 23, 2013 Hi, It definitely helps but only temporary. I had sex with 4 girls in 4 weeks and at the time it helps, but you start comparing them to your ex, and to be frank, they just don't match up to her at all.. If you truly need to move on do it, whether you are mentally prepared or not. if you wait, she will just crush your heart when you find out that she is dating other people to get over you. and to be honest it is so much easier for a girl, so get yourself out there and make yourself available. 1
jkepler85 Posted April 24, 2013 Posted April 24, 2013 Sure have. Nothing wrong with it as long as your honest with yourself. It can be a confidence booster to have you new faces in your life, but just realize they are likely transition people. Just try not to break any hearts yourself. 1
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