Jord11 Posted April 23, 2013 Posted April 23, 2013 Talking to my boss today he told me if you want to heal and feel better forgive her not matter what she put you through, key is to forgive and and learn from the pass and move on.
Cogee Posted April 23, 2013 Posted April 23, 2013 The most important point is not forgiveness, but rather learning to accept things and to let go. Holding on to anger and resentment does nothing to reduce feelings of hurt. When you are able to let go, it means you no longer care to revisit old thoughts. Forgiveness is a way to accomplish this, but I think people in general mistake acceptance/understanding with forgiveness. I understand and accept why my ex left me for someone else. I also accept why she lied about it, but I cannot forgive her. I would not do what she did to me and until I see her regret it, I cannot genuinely forgive her for it.
Chi townD Posted April 23, 2013 Posted April 23, 2013 Your boss is right. You can forgive her. It can be very healing and empowering. So, you can be able to forgive her as a person. But, as a girlfriend.....well, you won't be going down that road again.
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