DelusionalOne Posted April 22, 2013 Posted April 22, 2013 So it's been almost 3 months now... The last two days... I feel so detached from it all. It's not like I haven't thought of him...how could I not, I've been out here a half dozen times as day. But when I think of him....I feel nothing. Could it be possible that I am finally getting past this? Am I finally getting over him? As much as it sucked...him leaving me alone worked out. He may think he did it for him... But for the first (and only) time he did what was best for me. 3
Goodbye Posted April 22, 2013 Posted April 22, 2013 Yay!! What a milestone. I hope you are moving on.
movingon45 Posted April 23, 2013 Posted April 23, 2013 So it's been almost 3 months now... The last two days... I feel so detached from it all. It's not like I haven't thought of him...how could I not, I've been out here a half dozen times as day. But when I think of him....I feel nothing. Could it be possible that I am finally getting past this? Am I finally getting over him? As much as it sucked...him leaving me alone worked out. He may think he did it for him... But for the first (and only) time he did what was best for me. Yes, detachment and indifference those are all good. Congratulations for getting there. I'm feeling kind of the same way after 7 months. I still think of him and just the other day when he texted, I felt warm all over again, but I'm no longer that giddy. Takes time. 1
whichwayisup Posted April 23, 2013 Posted April 23, 2013 So it's been almost 3 months now... The last two days... I feel so detached from it all. It's not like I haven't thought of him...how could I not, I've been out here a half dozen times as day. But when I think of him....I feel nothing. Could it be possible that I am finally getting past this? Am I finally getting over him? As much as it sucked...him leaving me alone worked out. He may think he did it for him... But for the first (and only) time he did what was best for me. Take this as a sign that you're on the healing path. NC is the best way to get over someone. out of sight/out of mind and makes your heart catch up to the mind..if that makes sense.
Author DelusionalOne Posted April 23, 2013 Author Posted April 23, 2013 (edited) while I'm not high fiving myself yet, it's a good start. I don't think I would pass my own LITMUS test but as long as I don't hear from him, and after all this time I can't imagine why I would, I think benign indifference is in my future. Edited April 23, 2013 by DelusionalOne
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