Johnny-boy Posted April 22, 2013 Posted April 22, 2013 There's a girl in my class that has been flirting with me since the beginning off the semester. Last week SHE asked ME out, and we got together a couple of days later. We had an excellent date then kissed each other, with tongue, for a good 1/2 hour. When we parted company she seemed really eager to see me again. She TXT me this morning "I just want to be friends". I don't get it!!!! Why do women play these mind games? If she didn't like me why would she ask me out and hook up with me? And if she does like me, why would she change her mind 180 degrees so quickly? :-(
Cogee Posted April 22, 2013 Posted April 22, 2013 This isn't a breakup and really should be in the Dating forum. Anyway, maybe she is dating someone else she has more interest in, or maybe when she was with you there was a point where she realized that she wasn't interested in things further but didn't mind making out for fun. Really that's what dating is all about. You could ask her why she changed her mind if you really want to know, but don't get upset about it. I'd personally just forget about it and keep dating. 1
Aerrie Posted April 23, 2013 Posted April 23, 2013 (edited) LOL, classic girl move Maybe she confided to someone who advised her against you and she was stupid enough to believe them. Though, it is more likely, that she likes someone else more or that she has decided to not pursue you for some reason. Oh and, holy mother of god, HALF AN HOUR kiss?? That could be your reason right there Edited April 23, 2013 by Aerrie 1
Jbum5 Posted April 23, 2013 Posted April 23, 2013 She trolled you, period. Now you have two choices: 1) ask her why things ended the way they did and then move on, or 2) move on. Really, don't let one half-hour kiss get you hooked. Don't be a buffoon.
Aerrie Posted April 24, 2013 Posted April 24, 2013 There is no point in asking what lead her to her decision. She is going to lie or not answer. It will only raise more questions that are pointless. She will not make herself look bad. There is never any point in closure, how she is behaving right now is all you need to know to NEXT HER.
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