Mack1 Posted April 22, 2013 Posted April 22, 2013 First ever post here, please be kind. Me and my girlfriend are already long distance, of a few hours, and she returns to her country in a few months time. However, we discussed it a lot, and decided we would stay together. She said last week, she doesn't think that the relationship shall work, as I was quite negative lately about next year, she is also becoming negative. So we met at the weekend to discuss. She said to met at the weekend, she doesn't think that it would work, she wouldn't like to attempt it. So we agreed to give it time, and see out the weekend acting as we usually do. However, that became difficult, and she eventually told me how I now feel more like a brother to her, and not a boyfriend. We've become close, over a long distance with little time together, and we began dating quickly. She thinks that not doing friendship first was a cause, and she'd like a friendship, although not a relationship. So we decided now to take a break, at least for exam time. However, she confuses me. She's going through a difficult time, she's got many deadlines, a family member is unwell, and her family don't like her being with a foreign boyfriend who stays over at hers. She doesn't like lying about me to her family, as I do stay over. I'm confused, our time together over the weekend was still close, we still slept together, spent time with friends as we usually would, acted like we did before. I don't know whether she genuinely means her feelings changed, and she doesn't look for a relationship with me now, or the pressure of family stuff and deadlines are forcing her into a quick decision that she doesn't mean.
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