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So I was in an short but pretty powerful relationship in my eyes. All was good the first 3-months we were getting closer and closer, spent the holidays together, met each others families. We always had a great time together. Then suddenly she started to become somewhat distant and less available to me. Had excuses why we couldn't hang out etc... We spent the next 6-weeks kind of in this phase where will still see each other but not as frequent and I felt less effort coming from her. But we still always had a great time together and she was very affectionate when we were in person. Then she gets colder and more distant and we have a little heart to heart talk, and keep in mind we never had an argument up until our last chat. She tells me a relationship is not a priority and other things that she's not interested in going further. But still wants to have me in her life.

 

So fast forward 2-months later we're still in touch via text but we haven't hung out. She'll flirt and talk about doing stuff together but still doesn't put any effort to make plans. I don't know if she has another dude? I've been backing away from her with less and less communication but I still have hope we will hangout again.

 

Am I just fooling myself or do you think there's still legit interest? Anyone have a similar experience?

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Honestly she's told you what she wants.

 

It hurts,I know. Better now than after its been years and your hearts ruined.

 

Let her go,go find someone who wants to hangout with you and be with you like a priority... you deserve it.

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