witchychick Posted April 22, 2013 Posted April 22, 2013 Have any of you ever had someone you dated lose interest in you and not want to sleep with you again, and say it's not what they look for or are looking for, but sometime later they gave you another chance? I just thought I would ask.
TaraMaiden Posted April 23, 2013 Posted April 23, 2013 The question is, if they've told you that you don't 'float their boat', why would YOU give THEM a second chance? 2
geegirl Posted April 23, 2013 Posted April 23, 2013 Have any of you ever had someone you dated lose interest in you and not want to sleep with you again, and say it's not what they look for or are looking for, but sometime later they gave you another chance? I just thought I would ask. Is this the guy that told you he found you less attractive after he slept with you?
witchychick Posted April 23, 2013 Posted April 23, 2013 yeah,he said he was a little less physically attracted to me after we had sex and that there wasnt a spark when we had sex. Now he has said basically I didnt do some fetish but I dont know what it is because he never said anything to me about any kind of fetish. Or maybe he thought I wouldnt do whatever it was or didnt like that I didnt automatically do it. People aren't mind readers,though. He also said it isnt what he looks for or is looking for. I dont know,maybe its crazy to ask what I asked here. I just wanted to hear from people if that happened with them{what I asked in my op here}. He said some other things the other nite,too but I dont wanna get into it.
Treasa Posted April 23, 2013 Posted April 23, 2013 He sounds like a winner. </sarcasm> Block his ass.
geegirl Posted April 23, 2013 Posted April 23, 2013 yeah,he said he was a little less physically attracted to me after we had sex and that there wasnt a spark when we had sex. Now he has said basically I didnt do some fetish but I dont know what it is because he never said anything to me about any kind of fetish. Or maybe he thought I wouldnt do whatever it was or didnt like that I didnt automatically do it. People aren't mind readers,though. He also said it isnt what he looks for or is looking for. I dont know,maybe its crazy to ask what I asked here. I just wanted to hear from people if that happened with them{what I asked in my op here}. He said some other things the other nite,too but I dont wanna get into it. I would suggest you move on from this. When you start to twist yourself into a pretzel to accommodate and please a man, it's highly unattractive and it also erodes your self-respect. If a man told me he found me less attractive after having sex with me, that would have been it. I'm not sure why you keep engaging him and allowing him to diminish you. 1
witchychick Posted April 24, 2013 Posted April 24, 2013 I'm not trying to accomodate him or letting him diminish me.
TaraMaiden Posted April 27, 2013 Posted April 27, 2013 Nobody is suggesting that it's what you are 'trying' to do - but that is clearly what is happening. He has made it quite clear to you, that basically he is just out for a good time. And you're it. But he has no commitment towards you and was less than complimentary about being attracted to you after sex. To be perfectly honest, I really don't see the sense in continuing to discuss him. There's truly nothing to discuss. He's a jerk and is behaving accordingly. I would simply skip any further posts and ditch him, pronto. Finito.
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