annaliese7193 Posted April 22, 2013 Posted April 22, 2013 So weve been together nearly a year and 4 months, so far its been really good. Just lately (the last 3/4 months) hes started to do petty nasty things, like asking to see me and not bothering, doing things that he knows will make me angry and cause arguments. Anyways last week i broke up with him as i had warned him several times and nothing changed. It seemed to shock him into changing, we sorted it and got back together. Anyways this weekend just gone we went town each with our friend groups and met up later on. I was dancing and a lad came and danced near me, i did not talk to or move near the lad and he accused me of cheating! This ruined my night as i got quite upset and had to go home! I had to stay awake to let him in as i had the key and he ended up not coming in till 6am. Obviously i was annoyed when he finally showed. He told me he got mugged and went to a friends, when i asked the friend and infact they just stayed out in a club till 6am and he lost his phone. He said he lied as he didnt want me mad that i had stayed awake till then to let him in when he had been out, whereas if he had got mugged it wouldnt be as bad. Like i said the lie is 100% worse. He got really upset and said he now realises how **** he treats me. Said he was going to change. Ive said ill give it this week, no signs of improvement then thats it. Do you think im being harsh? What would you do? Also about a month ago i went through a phase of being paranoid which has now stopped and that caused a few petty arguments! But ive now realised and changed. Could this be a phase for him? As its so not like him and he can not handle drink, it changes him?
Sososad Posted April 22, 2013 Posted April 22, 2013 Sounds to me on what you just said your been to hard on yourself He seems like the one with the issues. Sit down and try have a talk. The lies and judging has to stop if you've given Him no reason to not trust you he has to try see this . Is he having a tough time with other things maybe ? Try talking .. See what he says. But it's not fair you getting the blame for everything and been sad!
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