TheZebra Posted April 23, 2013 Posted April 23, 2013 How do you know that the only reason you like is because you've never experienced a real city life before..? When I brought my puppy from another state, I kept him in a carrier bag for about 5 hours. With all the commotion, he was so terrified that even after we arrived he wouldn't leave the carrier. He got used to it, and it felt safe, so he stayed in there. He ate in there. He slept in there. Once we finally managed to get him out of it though, there was no turning back. He loves the house, the neighborhood, the city, everything. He would never go back to that carrier. We know, we've tried to put him in there for vet trips but he won't stay in it. The lesson? Get out of your carrier bag and go see what's out there. And I don't mean for a couple of months - I mean a few years. If you want to return to this life, trust me, it'll be there waiting for you. Knowing small towns in the middle of nowhere, it'll be like you never left. 2
Tressugar Posted April 23, 2013 Posted April 23, 2013 Lose both of these men numbers and keep on dating. Don't become discouraged. You're going to kiss a lot of frogs before you meet your prince. Mainly men your age are immature. 2
Mme. Chaucer Posted April 24, 2013 Posted April 24, 2013 If you hang at Walmart a lot, you have a good chance of being featured on peopleofwalmart.com. 2
charlietheginger Posted April 24, 2013 Posted April 24, 2013 Water seeks water Crazy seeks crazy Misery loves company All figures of speech meaning people draw or are drawn to people just like themselves 1
bentnotbroken Posted April 24, 2013 Posted April 24, 2013 Did you really refer to someone's GF as a "zoo animal"? On multiple occasions.
RachR Posted April 24, 2013 Posted April 24, 2013 (edited) I'm sorry, didn't you just have a 1,000 post thread about how your life was over when you were broken up with like a week ago? My point: Trust me, life is so much nicer if you can learn to live without the drama / being so dramatic, at least regarding your dating life. Edited April 24, 2013 by RachR *edit
Keenly Posted April 24, 2013 Posted April 24, 2013 hanging out at wal mart for a first date. I'm super jealous of his romantic imagination. 1
outsidethebox Posted April 24, 2013 Posted April 24, 2013 hanging out at wal mart for a first date. I'm super jealous of his romantic imagination. I'm pretty sure it's not limited to first dates. It's a way of life.
Author ImperfectionisBeauty Posted April 24, 2013 Author Posted April 24, 2013 hanging out at wal mart for a first date. I'm super jealous of his romantic imagination. Lol I thought it was adorable, just hanging out and walking around Wally World lol. Obviously he didn't call me so we never got to go but it was just something we were gonna do because there was nothing else to do. He had to buy something and wanted me to tag along.
Author ImperfectionisBeauty Posted April 24, 2013 Author Posted April 24, 2013 On multiple occasions. He actually dumped her and kicked her out. He said she gained like 40 pounds in 6 months and he was sick of her being fat basically (she is pregnant now so she's only gonna get bigger) but yeah it's insane. I feel a little bad about calling her an animal after hearing all this stuff
xpaperxcutx Posted April 24, 2013 Posted April 24, 2013 He actually dumped her ag I'm curious to know if you are still seeing a counselor or therapist. You seem to have a lot of issues, be it showing empathy towards others or something unspecified. Have you worked on your self-esteem and maybe on your need for attachment with any guy who places himself in your peripheral view?
suladas Posted April 24, 2013 Posted April 24, 2013 There is nothing wrong with country guys, but the type she is describing are deadbeat losers whether they are country, city, nerdy, or whatever type. IB the next time you meet a guy do a screening test on him No drugs Has a job and/or going to school Has a vehicle Wants to go on an actual date Doesn't have baby daddy issues No crazy ex's Isn't in a relationship with someone else Or any of the other crazy things you've mentioned about previous guys There is so much more, but seriously you shouldn't go close to anyone like the guys you go for. 1
Author ImperfectionisBeauty Posted April 24, 2013 Author Posted April 24, 2013 He actually dumped her ag I'm curious to know if you are still seeing a counselor or therapist. You seem to have a lot of issues, be it showing empathy towards others or something unspecified. Have you worked on your self-esteem and maybe on your need for attachment with any guy who places himself in your peripheral view? In therapy now, just started
Nyla Posted April 25, 2013 Posted April 25, 2013 Good. Therapy would be very helpful. I am surprised that someone as conservative as you would mess with someone else's partner. He is about to be a father, he lives off of his pregnant girlfriend that he is no respect for and you are interested in this "man"? Why?? I must say that I love Wal Mart and Target, but I visit those stores to buy items.
Author ImperfectionisBeauty Posted April 25, 2013 Author Posted April 25, 2013 Good. Therapy would be very helpful. I am surprised that someone as conservative as you would mess with someone else's partner. He is about to be a father, he lives off of his pregnant girlfriend that he is no respect for and you are interested in this "man"? Why?? I must say that I love Wal Mart and Target, but I visit those stores to buy items. I have messed with people's partner before (1 time I had physical contact with him the other I just talked to him) obviously I have expressed regret about that. I'm not talking to this guy though I mean we chat but I have no interest in him right now, I don't wanna deal with his kid and the idea that he might have another on the way. I haven't really met anyone I wanna date but I mean nick is cool to chat with every now and then I have no interest in dating him. The point is I'm not "man stealing" at the moment lol they are broken up he kicked her out a day ago but I'm still uninterested lol
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