ImperfectionisBeauty Posted April 22, 2013 Posted April 22, 2013 So today the most odd thing happened. Well 2 odd things happened, I went on a date last night with this guy and I thought it went great, he was a hottie a total country boy we were gonna go mudding today!! Well he didn't text me today... The date ended weird we went to starbucks and chatted then we were gonna leave and go to walmart and hang out lol but he left his dog outside and had to go home so we were gonna meet afterward but he took FOREVER so I was like "hey I am going to shower and relax let's do something tomorrow" nothing. Ok whatever it was a good date he was cute but I will recover. This afternoon I get a text from an unrecognizable number. It was Nick (the guy who is having a baby with the "zoo animal") haha ok so he messages me to tell me how he is dumping her and he hopes that he can make up for what he did to me like a year ago, he wants me to be his "cheerleader" at his body building competition in October. I was like "isn't your gf pregnant?" he said "yeah but idk if it is mine and it isn't working out, I am going to dump her". Ok mind you his child is due in November, he is asking me to be his arm candy for this event in October, wtf? Take your 8 month pregnant girlfriend. He said he is only staying with her because he is strapped for cash and her paying rent helps a lot. I am baffled I can't believe it has been a year and he is messaging me. I am just like woah guys are a little shady! I mean wtf but hey I am moving on
HoneyBadgerDontCare Posted April 22, 2013 Posted April 22, 2013 So today the most odd thing happened. Well 2 odd things happened, I went on a date last night with this guy and I thought it went great, he was a hottie a total country boy we were gonna go mudding today!! Well he didn't text me today... The date ended weird we went to starbucks and chatted then we were gonna leave and go to walmart and hang out lol but he left his dog outside and had to go home so we were gonna meet afterward but he took FOREVER so I was like "hey I am going to shower and relax let's do something tomorrow" nothing. Ok whatever it was a good date he was cute but I will recover. This afternoon I get a text from an unrecognizable number. It was Nick (the guy who is having a baby with the "zoo animal") haha ok so he messages me to tell me how he is dumping her and he hopes that he can make up for what he did to me like a year ago, he wants me to be his "cheerleader" at his body building competition in October. I was like "isn't your gf pregnant?" he said "yeah but idk if it is mine and it isn't working out, I am going to dump her". Ok mind you his child is due in November, he is asking me to be his arm candy for this event in October, wtf? Take your 8 month pregnant girlfriend. He said he is only staying with her because he is strapped for cash and her paying rent helps a lot. I am baffled I can't believe it has been a year and he is messaging me. I am just like woah guys are a little shady! I mean wtf but hey I am moving on Just out of curiosity, how old are you?
Author ImperfectionisBeauty Posted April 22, 2013 Author Posted April 22, 2013 Just out of curiosity, how old are you? 22 years old
HoneyBadgerDontCare Posted April 22, 2013 Posted April 22, 2013 22 years old Okay well that's good. At least you're young. I'm sure the right guy will come along. Just get some hobbies and goals and stop revolving your life around dating.
Author ImperfectionisBeauty Posted April 22, 2013 Author Posted April 22, 2013 Wow, somebody moves on fast.... I mean my ex moved on very fast too, and he hasn't "moved" so hey...
Author ImperfectionisBeauty Posted April 22, 2013 Author Posted April 22, 2013 I think Maury Povich would be very interested in this thread. Lol at least it isn't my drama! I love that for the most part I am drama free.
TheZebra Posted April 22, 2013 Posted April 22, 2013 I don't understand why you keep hanging out with these losers... Seriously, I was gone for like 2-3 months and you're still picking terrible men. My goodness... it's not hard to find a guy who doesn't have women he possibly impregnated. Normal men read this thread and facepalm like there's no tomorrow... 3
Author ImperfectionisBeauty Posted April 22, 2013 Author Posted April 22, 2013 I don't understand why you keep hanging out with these losers... Seriously, I was gone for like 2-3 months and you're still picking terrible men. My goodness... it's not hard to find a guy who doesn't have women he possibly impregnated. Normal men read this thread and facepalm like there's no tomorrow... Well the guy I went on the date with was normal he had no kids and a job and was cool. I guess we just didnt connect the way I thought we did. I understand The second guy who messaged me today I dated/hooked up with him a year ago he was my first real heartbreak when he dropped me. I am not trying to date him or be with him at all he possibly has 2 kids by 2 moms and that's too much for me.
MidwestUSA Posted April 22, 2013 Posted April 22, 2013 Did you really refer to someone's GF as a "zoo animal"? 3
Author ImperfectionisBeauty Posted April 22, 2013 Author Posted April 22, 2013 Did you really refer to someone's GF as a "zoo animal"? I did it in a ton of other posts and posted it here so anyone who has followed my post will know the guy I'm talking about, that's why I put it in quotations. But short answer just I have before and sorry not sorry.
MidwestUSA Posted April 22, 2013 Posted April 22, 2013 I did it in a ton of other posts and posted it here so anyone who has followed my post will know the guy I'm talking about, that's why I put it in quotations. But short answer just I have before and sorry not sorry. Well, I give you credit for your consistency in proving yourself. 4
Kamille Posted April 22, 2013 Posted April 22, 2013 I am just like woah guys are a little shady! I mean wtf but hey I am moving on Glad you're moving on. If you want marriage - and I know you do - one of the first thing you want to do is stay away from men who bring nothing but drama to your life. 1
TKizz Posted April 22, 2013 Posted April 22, 2013 I was like "isn't your gf pregnant?" he said "yeah but idk if it is mine and it isn't working out, I am going to dump her". Ok mind you his child is due in November, he is asking me to be his arm candy for this event in October, wtf? Take your 8 month pregnant girlfriend. He said he is only staying with her because he is strapped for cash and her paying rent helps a lot. WOW. Relying on his pregnant girlfriend's income, while at the same time denying that the child is his. He effing knows it is. I'm surprised he can even wipe his own ass with the amount of responsibility that he takes for himself. My best friend's baby daddy was just like this boy. Where the hell did you dig him up from? 1
Author ImperfectionisBeauty Posted April 22, 2013 Author Posted April 22, 2013 WOW. Relying on his pregnant girlfriend's income, while at the same time denying that the child is his. He effing knows it is. I'm surprised he can even wipe his own ass with the amount of responsibility that he takes for himself. My best friend's baby daddy was just like this boy. Where the hell did you dig him up from? We initially met on POF. He contacted me yesterday I didn't even know who it was until he told me. I just feel bad for the gf a little he said he dumped her but it seems like so much drama
SmileFace Posted April 22, 2013 Posted April 22, 2013 What I believe is the most critical part of this story....and maybe I'm misreading this....did you say you were going to hang out at Walmart?!? :laugh::laugh::laugh::laugh: Yo... What love life though? 1
Author ImperfectionisBeauty Posted April 22, 2013 Author Posted April 22, 2013 What I believe is the most critical part of this story....and maybe I'm misreading this....did you say you were going to hang out at Walmart?!? Hey Walmart is like the only fun place around. I mean its open 24/7 so we can just hang out 1
Drseussgrrl Posted April 22, 2013 Posted April 22, 2013 Hey Walmart is like the only fun place around. I mean its open 24/7 so we can just hang out And do what? Check out the specials on mops? Honey, you seriously need to get out of that podunk town. Walmart isn't a date. In fact, I NEVER go there on purpose. 2
Author ImperfectionisBeauty Posted April 22, 2013 Author Posted April 22, 2013 And do what? Check out the specials on mops? Honey, you seriously need to get out of that podunk town. Walmart isn't a date. In fact, I NEVER go there on purpose. Lol we just walk around and stuff haha I know it sucks but we were gonna go mudding too and that's kinda fun I think, but I've never done it
SmileFace Posted April 22, 2013 Posted April 22, 2013 What is muddling? I don't feel like googling. I don't know how people live in small towns. 1
Author ImperfectionisBeauty Posted April 22, 2013 Author Posted April 22, 2013 What is muddling? I don't feel like googling. I don't know how people live in small towns. If you have an SUV or pickup truck you go out and drive into huge mud pits off road and stuff and get your car super messy but it looks so fun!
veggirl Posted April 23, 2013 Posted April 23, 2013 yeah I was gonna ask wtf is mudding too. You should move to a city, all the people you post about sound so trashy, please don't talk to Nick ever again. Why do you like redneck guys?
Author ImperfectionisBeauty Posted April 23, 2013 Author Posted April 23, 2013 yeah I was gonna ask wtf is mudding too. You should move to a city, all the people you post about sound so trashy, please don't talk to Nick ever again. Why do you like redneck guys? Lol it is just something about the country lifestyle that pulls me in. I love camo, and real tree and mossy oak, and lifted trucks, and mudding, and shooting, and stuff like that. Ok funny story the guy I was supposed to go mudding with (his name is Joe) well he told me that he is on a major diet to beef up and he is... on steroids. I pick real winners guys :/ I'm ashamed of myself even though he was hot. I will give myself credit the guy who just dumped me last week was a legit guy, he had a job and was country but not TOO country. I did well one time lol. Ok say I wanted to live in like NC there are country boys there but they also have big cities right?
veggirl Posted April 23, 2013 Posted April 23, 2013 Lol it is just something about the country lifestyle that pulls me in. I love camo, and real tree and mossy oak, and lifted trucks, and mudding, and shooting, and stuff like that. Ok funny story the guy I was supposed to go mudding with (his name is Joe) well he told me that he is on a major diet to beef up and he is... on steroids. I pick real winners guys :/ I'm ashamed of myself even though he was hot. I will give myself credit the guy who just dumped me last week was a legit guy, he had a job and was country but not TOO country. I did well one time lol. Ok say I wanted to live in like NC there are country boys there but they also have big cities right? I mean you like what you like, if you like country guys then so be it. You don't need to change that, I just...can't fathom liking what you like, I don't mean that critically, it's just so different from what I've EVER been around. It's interesting in a way. I'd run away from a guy wearing camo lol. I think living in a city (not a huge like east coast city or something but yes perhaps a Raleigh type of place) would expose you to many new things that you need to be exposed to. You just seem sooo naive and sheltered which baffles me because you are about to be a college grad and considering law school right? You just need to get out of your bubble. when I think country lifestyle I think guys and girls who have nothing better to do than drink and have sex with each other and use each other. perhaps instead of "country boy" you should go for "southern gentleman" ? I know you aren't southern (I don't think) but...I think it's a different type than "country boy" ya know? 2
Author ImperfectionisBeauty Posted April 23, 2013 Author Posted April 23, 2013 I mean you like what you like, if you like country guys then so be it. You don't need to change that, I just...can't fathom liking what you like, I don't mean that critically, it's just so different from what I've EVER been around. It's interesting in a way. I'd run away from a guy wearing camo lol. I think living in a city (not a huge like east coast city or something but yes perhaps a Raleigh type of place) would expose you to many new things that you need to be exposed to. You just seem sooo naive and sheltered which baffles me because you are about to be a college grad and considering law school right? You just need to get out of your bubble. when I think country lifestyle I think guys and girls who have nothing better to do than drink and have sex with each other and use each other. perhaps instead of "country boy" you should go for "southern gentleman" ? I know you aren't southern (I don't think) but...I think it's a different type than "country boy" ya know? Southern gentleman, that sounds much better.
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