Noproblem Posted April 21, 2013 Posted April 21, 2013 (edited) Well, this story is just a story ok. Taking your opionions about this guy! About a year ago, a guy poked me on Facebook ....So yeah I poked him back For those people who don't know what poking is ...It's simply ...a stupid thing invented by Facebook, like at first when they invented cell phones and people used to do miss call "calls' wars" ....So, you poke some one and he or she pokes back ...and you do that until you get bored ..You don't have to be friends Any way we kept on poking each other for 2 weeks or something ...Then he sent me a message saying well, will we stay like this? I told him, oh what do you mean? He said you know, I want more than poking. so I said well I just poked you back because it was rude not to poke you back and I don't want to do anything more. He got rude and said well go to hell I told him well, actually I'm not planning to go to hell, hopefully New York if I got lucky (Someday!) Anyway, I really didn't like his rudeness, but deep down inside I knew he'll come back ....After like 4 months he came back and apologized ...Was acting nice! and asked to be friends, I told him I'm only here for friendships and I'm not good for him, because I'm still into games and animes and fairy tales ...He said well he doesn't mind, because yeah he is interested in friendship because he thinks I'm nice. So yeah I added him and we talked for 2 or 3 days on those days he didn't talk much, I was excited and talkative and he was mostly silent and boring claiming he doesn't like Facebook and he prefers texting, he said that I probably know I'm beautiful so no need to repeat it to me (P.s: not excited because of him, but at that period of my life I was so excited and talkative) all our conversations don't last for half an hour by the way .... Anyway, someday we were talking about football and everything was ok, he was at Starbucks ...and said we'll continue talking once he return to his house ...And that was that! From that day he stopped talking to me and I didn't bother to ask! Again, I knew someday he'll return back .... well after like 4 or 5 months ..he returned by saying hi and I didn't bother to answer him... 3 weeks since the Hi ...and 4 days ago I was upset I was upset about something related to something else so I deactivated my account ....I returned today ... and Tonight he sent me a message, I didn't read the first part, but read in the end he said that he misses me... What the hell! Seriously, he spends all his time at night clubs and he adds girls all the time and comments on them, while not once he replied or commented on everything I shared, I'm not his friend or anything, we barely talked and On Facebook that's it. Plus, he lives in another state! Way far .....! So, what is really wrong with him, because seriously..I'm not gonnna talk to someone who is so bored at the moment and suddenly he remembers that oh well, let me try again. I don't want to reply to him, because If I reply I will tell him that he must be so bored and out of girls to remember me! well Maybe i'll tell him that ..Later! Edited April 21, 2013 by Noproblem
Archgirl Posted April 21, 2013 Posted April 21, 2013 You are just one of the chicks he plays with when he is bored, and probably not even in the top ten judging by the gap of months between contact. It's a game to charm chicks (or guys ) electronically to pass the time. There is no meaningful interest in you as a person in his actions or he would be more consistent. If you want to meet a guy through online intereraction, try groups related to your interests. Sorry for the bad news and best of luck. 2
Author Noproblem Posted April 21, 2013 Author Posted April 21, 2013 There is no bad news in your reply I know he is not interested and he is a player I'm just surprised how can he act like that! Does he think I'm that stupid to fall for him or anything ! I'm not interested in online dating, I like to have new friends that's all. I have friends from many countries we contact and comment on each other's status or photos and I do care for them women and men ..We play games online and that is Facebook for me, not time for relationships over the internet I don't like such kind of relationships ...
Archgirl Posted April 21, 2013 Posted April 21, 2013 There is no bad news in your reply I know he is not interested and he is a player I'm just surprised how can he act like that! Does he think I'm that stupid to fall for him or anything ! I'm not interested in online dating, I like to have new friends that's all. I have friends from many countries we contact and comment on each other's status or photos and I do care for them women and men ..We play games online and that is Facebook for me, not time for relationships over the internet I don't like such kind of relationships ... Oh good! It sounds like you have your head screwed on straight then. I reckon just block him. xoxo 1
Author Noproblem Posted April 21, 2013 Author Posted April 21, 2013 Oh good! It sounds like you have your head screwed on straight then. I reckon just block him. xoxo I don't block them, even if I hate them that much! I won't let anyone think...Oh, she couldn't resist the fact I'm not with her so she blocked me ...Poor her ... You know how they think so much of themselves The world revolves around them! He is handsome and younger than me by the way ....Just saying .
Archgirl Posted April 21, 2013 Posted April 21, 2013 Ahhh! I gotcha! Youre keeping him around for entertainment value - well done! 1
Author Noproblem Posted April 21, 2013 Author Posted April 21, 2013 How old is he? He seems like a player. I wouldn't share my Facebook page with strangers that is trouble waiting to happen. Well, he is a friend of a friend ..not completely a stranger He is 25
Author Noproblem Posted April 21, 2013 Author Posted April 21, 2013 Actually, I don't like him I think he is rich and spoiled He thinks because of his good looks and money that he owns the world He never said anything like that, but I just feel he is like this. But I'm kinda of stuck ...I can't delete him, and I don't want to talk with him! I'm the kind of person who doesn't want conflicts with anyone if I can help it.....and because I don't know him, I don't know what he is capable of doing ..I don't want to delete and next thing I see him go to my friends and pretend things that untrue ..... So, that's why ...I wanna know a way ....to get rid of him, without really getting riding of him ...Maybe he'll get bored and delete me.....Hopefully!
Author Noproblem Posted April 22, 2013 Author Posted April 22, 2013 Well, I decided to reply to him and make everything normal If I didn't reply it will seem like I care and I'm upset ....
Archgirl Posted April 22, 2013 Posted April 22, 2013 Hahaha quickest way to turn off this sort is to act too interested in him/ relationship orientated. Or you could try seeing how impolite you can be before he hits the kill switch 1
HoneyBadgerDontCare Posted April 22, 2013 Posted April 22, 2013 Well, I decided to reply to him and make everything normal If I didn't reply it will seem like I care and I'm upset .... I think you actually are into him. If you weren't, this thread wouldn't have been created and you wouldn't continue to reply to him. 1
Author Noproblem Posted April 24, 2013 Author Posted April 24, 2013 I think you actually are into him. If you weren't, this thread wouldn't have been created and you wouldn't continue to reply to him. No, I'm not into him...I was head over heels about someone else; I only discuss the people that don't matter to me a lot, so I can learn. If there is someone I really care about, I don't bring his issues to the public Weird, but that's me
Author Noproblem Posted April 24, 2013 Author Posted April 24, 2013 Hahaha quickest way to turn off this sort is to act too interested in him/ relationship orientated. Or you could try seeing how impolite you can be before he hits the kill switch Yeah, I think it worked, because he's seen the message but hasn't replied yet ...Yaaay
Author Noproblem Posted April 26, 2013 Author Posted April 26, 2013 yeah, thank you. Throx You are right. I just have this problem with boundaries .......I'm to blame I guess..
Author Noproblem Posted April 26, 2013 Author Posted April 26, 2013 Ok I deleted him and I'll block him too
outsidethebox Posted April 26, 2013 Posted April 26, 2013 That's it? It was more interesting to ignore him. You're a no drama mama.
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