loverbradd Posted April 21, 2013 Posted April 21, 2013 Ok, so my girlfriend earlier in the month was asking me to go with her to an event, today 2 weeks later on a weekend she leaves the entire day calls me exited about her day. Mentions that she is going to the event because a couple of people wanted to go but does not invite me. I asked her what she is doing tonight and all I get in response is ill see you tomorrow Sunday making up for a full day away? no specifics I didn't ask I'm not the jealous type but my gut is telling me that she is being sneaky? maybe she just wants to hang out with different people I mean it is the weekend I hate the way its eating me up inside. Especially knowing that she has a flirtatious character and always seems to attract guys that want to shower her with gifts even though she is with me I dont mind the gifts but why is she not inviting me after talking to me about how great it would be for me to come with her earlier in the month? This feeling sucks! maybe nothing but yeah sucks!
Bryanp Posted April 21, 2013 Posted April 21, 2013 How do you think she would be acting if the roles were reversed? Did you say you are fine with other men showering your girlfriend with gifts? 1
whichwayisup Posted April 21, 2013 Posted April 21, 2013 How long have you two been together? And, why didn't you just come right out and ask her/tell her "hey I thought I was joining you to this event? You mentioned to me already ,asked if I'd like to go." 1
Darren Steez Posted April 21, 2013 Posted April 21, 2013 Tell her you are going to the event because you invited me. Just show up at her place, act cool and friendly...note her reaction, if she's disappointed to see you or if she straight up says no you can't go..that will tell you alot. If that's the case something might be happening. The question is the day after will you just cave and take her back when she acts all nice after dissing you? or will you handle this like a man?
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