aal763 Posted April 21, 2013 Posted April 21, 2013 So last weekend, while dropping this girl off, I told her we should study sometime. She said "sure just text me". So on Tuesday, I texted her asking her if she could study on Wednesday. She said that she couldn't wednesday. I then asked her about Friday. She said she was heading back home on thursday. So then I told her to text me when she gets her schedule finalized with a time that would work for her and she told me "ok". So today(saturday), I texted her around lunchtime asking her if she could study monday night, because we have a final on Thursday. 4 hours went by without her responding, so I sent her another text saying "? - Otherwise I'll have to study with *****. But he's an ass!" She still hasn't responded. The problem is, her and I are friends and see eachother quite a bit. She also gives me some signs that she likes me when we are together in person, but then she pulls stuff like this when I try to text her or chat with her on fb. What should I do?
coffeebean201 Posted April 21, 2013 Posted April 21, 2013 maybe she is dealing with other stuff some people study well in social groups, others don't organize something fun, with other people, invite her and make her smile (without trying too hard). see if that helps:) if she doesn't show up then I wouldn't worry about it - enjoy the friends that do make the effort.
Author aal763 Posted April 21, 2013 Author Posted April 21, 2013 Yeah, I was thinking about backing off a little bit for the next few weeks. This has really been bothering me though. She used to ALWAYS respond to my texts and/or facebook messages. For the past two weeks now or so, she's only replied to a few of them, and when she does reply, it's with short 1-2 word answers.
married2school Posted April 21, 2013 Posted April 21, 2013 If you're going to see her again in a social setting - you said you guys see each other quite a bit - I would be sure to act like it isn't bothering you of course. Keep cool about it, then maybe when you have another test coming up, ask how her studying is going... if she says she's having some trouble, maybe offer to study together again? Or like coffeebean said, maybe do something fun that you can invite her too instead. Personally, I study better in groups or with another person, but if it happens to be someone I like or we've been going on dates, etc. they just become distracting. 1
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