soupergirl Posted April 20, 2013 Posted April 20, 2013 Ex left me for someone else 5 months ago (pretty nasty breakup). No contact ever since. So today I found out that he,new girl and the girl's kids rented a house out of state and move in together next month. I'm not as hurt as 5 months ago but my first reaction was "oh no! this is too soon!" I just want to post it on here just to express how i feel/think. I just hope he knows what he's doing and I wish them the best.
anna121 Posted April 20, 2013 Posted April 20, 2013 You're generous to wish him well. But, also, still too emotionally invested. Don't worry - it is, most likely, a trainwreck waiting to happen. Now, back to focusing on YOU. 2
Comfortably Numb Posted April 20, 2013 Posted April 20, 2013 No SOUP for you! But in seriousness, people can and will be irrational. Sometimes you need this sort of irrational behavior to really push you over that cliff and finally feel free to breathe and live again without that weight on you. It sucks but hopefully this will help you continue to be more positive and focus on yourself. If it will make you feel any better you could wish me the best . I really have no idea what I am saying. I love lamp....... 1
Author soupergirl Posted April 20, 2013 Author Posted April 20, 2013 You're generous to wish him well. But, also, still too emotionally invested. Don't worry - it is, most likely, a trainwreck waiting to happen. Now, back to focusing on YOU. No SOUP for you! But in seriousness, people can and will be irrational. Sometimes you need this sort of irrational behavior to really push you over that cliff and finally feel free to breathe and live again without that weight on you. It sucks but hopefully this will help you continue to be more positive and focus on yourself. If it will make you feel any better you could wish me the best . I really have no idea what I am saying. I love lamp....... Thanks! It sucks but I have to move forward and focus on me and what makes me happy. But I'm glad it's over. I learned a lot from this relationship.
BrokenHeartedSavior Posted April 21, 2013 Posted April 21, 2013 Tough pill to swallow, but true. My ex did the same. She has moved on. Our job is to concentrate on US! Everyone here is 1000% correct!!!
Author soupergirl Posted April 21, 2013 Author Posted April 21, 2013 Tough pill to swallow, but true. My ex did the same. She has moved on. Our job is to concentrate on US! Everyone here is 1000% correct!!! Yeah, it is tough but everything happens for a reason. I am working on myself now and I'm actually doing good! I made new friends, started a new hobby, working out, and I recently signed up for a marathon. I've been wanting to do all these things but couldn't do it with my ex around (not getting support from him).
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