The Tallest One Posted April 20, 2013 Posted April 20, 2013 I haven't been on this site in a number of weeks. I have been busy with therapy and also spending time on another community site for support for my OCD. Today marks nine weeks since my ex ended things between us. It's true what they say about the two month regression. It's been harder these last few weeks than I thought it would be. I've finally accepted that its over but I still can't get her out of my head and my heart still hurts like hell!
Compromize Posted April 21, 2013 Posted April 21, 2013 (edited) I haven't been on this site in a number of weeks. I have been busy with therapy and also spending time on another community site for support for my OCD. Today marks nine weeks since my ex ended things between us. It's true what they say about the two month regression. It's been harder these last few weeks than I thought it would be. I've finally accepted that its over but I still can't get her out of my head and my heart still hurts like hell! I am going through the same thing bro. It's been about 10 weeks or so since I have seen her, really broken up since beginning of December but tried to make it work for several weeks in Late Jan/Early Feb. I too have been staying away from here for the past couple weeks. I know it's over, I am sure it's over but I can't stop thinking about her and I am still hurting. It's been worse this past week then it has been in a while, broke down and cried like a baby last weekend. I think we are going through the serious grieving phase. Really and truly grieving our lost women and our relationships. We have to keep moving forward. I know that I am still damaged goods and even though I am lonely and would like companionship and just to feel wanted again I am staying away from women for a while. Have you been getting out with friends or doing anything to keep yourself busy? I have 2 boys (10 and 12) and have them 75% of the time so they keep me in reality. I also started a new 7 week workout routine (RomanFitnessSystems) but I lift and run like a beast all the time anyway, this is just to push myself. This is another phase and I am right here with you brother. We just have to keep moving forward. We will get there. The fact we are still hurting means we loved. I know a lot of women would give anything to have a man that truly loves them. We just picked the wrong ones. I think after I get my boys to bed I will raise a glass in both our honor to picking the right ones next time. Edited April 21, 2013 by Compromize
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