AKisBaked Posted April 20, 2013 Posted April 20, 2013 Would you still keep in touch with your ex bf/gf's cousins? I talked to my ex gf's cousins a few times after me and my ex broke up and it was very mutual. Like there's no beef between me and them. And when i was still dating my ex I got along with them very well and they liked me and vice versa. I see it as whatever beef you have with between you and your ex is just between the 2 of you. It doens't involve anyone else. Even tho they're her cousins but they never got into our relationship and they never had any influence on her, I don't see why you shouldn't stay in contact with them even tho their family to your ex. It's understandable to see it not as a good idea because your ex may think that your just using them to get information about her/him. But in my case, I can care less about my ex and her new boy today. I don't give a f*ck about them:mad: But I don't see why I should give up a friendship with her cousins if there's not a problem between me and them. I sort of feel that her cousin kinda of "sold" me out the other day because I asked him if he wanted to go catch a baseball game with me and ask his brother and sister to come also. And right after I messaged him. Literally 5 mins after I was getting calls from my ex... Coincidence much? Bad timing? But if that's the case, but this just a thought I had and im not too sure if it is true or not of why she is calling. But if her cousin is telling her everything that I do, and if I message him stuff he would tell her and she is going to call me..... WTF... If it comes down to the case that he is "selling" me out then I guess there is no point in trying to stay friends with him... Any opinions? SUPPORT please
amaysngrace Posted April 20, 2013 Posted April 20, 2013 Well here's my opinion. When you break up a relationship you should break up from their family too. Don't create an awkward situation for her and them. They are her people. Make new friends somewhere else. 1
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