sweetjess1951 Posted April 20, 2013 Posted April 20, 2013 I'm on day 22 on NC. I feel like I've been thinking about it more and more. I actually cried today. I honestly thought he meant all the things he said to me about wanting me to be his wife (but was just scared), but as each day passes I'm feeling less and less like I'll ever hear from him again. I was so good to him and treated him so well. It seems like he isn't even suffering.
SendHope Posted April 21, 2013 Posted April 21, 2013 Hi, To answer your question, yes it does get easier. The healing process is not linear. Things will get worse before they get better and the cycle repeats itself. Eventually, the better phases starts lasting longer and longer. 23 days is way too early. I'm three months in NC and post break-up and I still have moments where I miss her terribly. Maybe I miss the relationship. I'm not so sure anymore. If you treated him well, then take comfort in that fact. You were a great girlfriend and deserving of someone who wants to treat you with the same wellness. In the meantime, focus on yourself. Try not to worry about what he thinks. It's irrelevant at this point.
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