212dk Posted April 20, 2013 Posted April 20, 2013 (edited) I was in a brief (8 months) romance I don't even think it could be called a relationship which was very intense.We both had a vast amount of free time so we were together 24/7,traveled,exchanged keys,ect.Well about the end of January there was a change of behavior on her part she became distant towards me and sure enough on Valentines she told me that we wanted different things and couldn't give me a commitment. I have been in no contact with her since but I have not done well.I have lost 35lbs and I'm not overweight.I suffer from insomnia and the only sleep i get is when I medicate and all i do is obsess about her.I have found out that she is with someone else and only the small amount of dignity I have left and reading the posts here have kept me strong enough to remain nc. There seems to be no progress in my recovery so I was wondering when do you realize that maybe you need professional intervention? Edited April 20, 2013 by 212dk
ThatJustHappened Posted April 20, 2013 Posted April 20, 2013 I was in a brief (8 months) romance I don't even think it could be called a relationship which was very intense.We both had a vast amount of free time so we were together 24/7,traveled,exchanged keys,ect.Well about the end of January there was a change of behavior on her part she became distant towards me and sure enough on Valentines she told me that we wanted different things and couldn't give me a commitment. I have been in no contact with her since but I have not done well.I have lost 35lbs and I'm not overweight.I suffer from insomnia and the only sleep i get is when I medicate and all i do is obsess about her.I have found out that she is with someone else and only the small amount of dignity I have left and reading the posts here have kept me strong enough to remain nc. There seems to be no progress in my recovery so I was wondering when do you realize that maybe you need professional intervention? Oh goodness..I'm so sorry you're not doing well. You've obviously already realized that you need professional help..now you need to go and get it. Are you able to do that on your own?
TheFriend Posted April 20, 2013 Posted April 20, 2013 Get that help ASAP. Pretty much the same thing happened to me around the same time. I got help right away. It helped me a ton. I did a councilor and an intensive depression out patient clinic. Same things I lost 25lbs and could only sleep with ambien. Read my story in my history "most effed up thing ever" may give you some motivation to stay nc!!!! Please do especially if she is with another!!!! I don't want you going through what I did!!!
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