marcoisanass Posted April 20, 2013 Posted April 20, 2013 I am a 18 year old male that just recently broke up with his girlfriend of the sam age. i want to start off by saying she was THE BEST girlfriend ever i mean she loves me like crazy and does anything for me and she wants is to make me happy and to be with me and she is a perfect ten! all that just makes me feel like the biggest ass in the world, hence my nickname. why would i brake up with such a perfect girl? well i guess i just wanted a little more freedom, not just to be with other girls i mean i felt suffocated and wanted time for myself and just didn't want to have all the duties of a boyfriend, also i see very clearly the life i want and where i want to be in 10 years and she just wasn't in that vision and i don't think i can get there with my feelings for holding me back (i do love her very much). i also want to enjoy my youth i am still only 18. i guess im just venting and trying to explain to myself why i did because i feel terrible right now and miss her, but i'd like to think the this is the best for both of us because maybe a i just didn't have the same feelings for her and felt bad for being so controlling over her and maybe i do just want to party a little. i did this now even though i love her because i think it's better than to drag it out, now im questioning my decision..maybe i just need to sleep. -worst boyfriend ever
Uncle Indy Posted April 20, 2013 Posted April 20, 2013 Well you are in the lucky spot because so many of us on here are the dumpee who would wish the person that dumped us regrets the decision and will come back. if you regret it, go back to her and change yourself, but don't go back and think in a month or two you will do it again. if you aren't ready for a relationship (which it sounds like you aren't because you are young and also immature) then don't hurt her anymore than you already have. 1
lovelifexx Posted April 20, 2013 Posted April 20, 2013 What kind of freedom do you want? You can't party and experience life while having a girlfriend? If it's that you want to be with other girls than obviously you can't have that kind of freedom while in a relationship....but everything else...?
Am4Real Posted April 20, 2013 Posted April 20, 2013 Questions: How did you tell her? What was her reaction? When did this happen, again? # of hours, # of days or # of weeks ago? Is she asking you to reconsider? What is your priority? In other words, what do really, really want for yourself? Keep in mind you are only 18 so we're not expecting you to tell us about the rest of your life, just the next 18 months.
Author marcoisanass Posted April 20, 2013 Author Posted April 20, 2013 Well you are in the lucky spot because so many of us on here are the dumpee who would wish the person that dumped us regrets the decision and will come back. if you regret it, go back to her and change yourself, but don't go back and think in a month or two you will do it again. if you aren't ready for a relationship (which it sounds like you aren't because you are young and also immature) then don't hurt her anymore than you already have i guess you're right, i mean it's just that right now i miss her so much but i know that if i try to get her back this problem will come up again. and honestly i just wish i could make her stop hurting.
Author marcoisanass Posted April 20, 2013 Author Posted April 20, 2013 What kind of freedom do you want? You can't party and experience life while having a girlfriend? If it's that you want to be with other girls than obviously you can't have that kind of freedom while in a relationship....but everything else...? i really haven't thought about other girls that much it's more that i want time for myself and i want to travel and leave my country (Costa Rica) and i think that all that will be very difficult with my feelings for tying me down.
Author marcoisanass Posted April 20, 2013 Author Posted April 20, 2013 Well you are in the lucky spot because so many of us on here are the dumpee who would wish the person that dumped us regrets the decision and will come back. if you regret it, go back to her and change yourself, but don't go back and think in a month or two you will do it again. if you aren't ready for a relationship (which it sounds like you aren't because you are young and also immature) then don't hurt her anymore than you already have. i guess you're right, i mean it's just that right now i miss her so much but i know that if i try to get her back this problem will come up again. and honestly i just wish i could make her stop hurting.
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