How do I start approaching girls...

[kyle77]

So I have been blessed with good looks. I am not saying this is at all a bad thing. However, it has created a little bit of a problem for me. I am 20 years old and in university and for my whole life I have become accustomed to girls approaching me. What I would like to do is start approaching girls myself. Mainly because the few girls I want to approach me never do and also for my self-esteem. The only problem with this is I have no idea where to start....I have approached girls at clubs before but I am more interested in approaching girls outside of clubs. How do I go about this without seeming like a creep etc. How am I to know the girl is interested in me or wants me to approach her? Any advice is appreciated, especially from girls...

[CARL45]

This first way to start approaching women is let go of ego. Second thing is just start giving value to everyone. This will help you because then you'll see a woman as just another person. I say this the most important because it's the thing that hinders you from being successful. It's the reason you don't want to seem like a creep. If you feel like you will be a creep because your body language will change once you try and approach a woman. All I'm saying is if you believe what you are doing is something positive then your body language will come out like your doing something positive. Am I making any sense? How to tell a woman is interested is a little bit more complicated. This is up to you really,but let me give you a hint when you have a conversation ends the woman will pick it up and talk about something else. A lot of this is also dependent on how much you enjoy talking to people.

[kyle77]

How do I go about letting go of ego? and start giving value to everyone? I feel like I understand what you mean and that I need to treat everyone as if they're my equal, which I think I already do...but how can I more actively do this?