lillyrae Posted April 20, 2013 Posted April 20, 2013 Well I hope this is the right forum. A friend I been knowing each other for 3 years almost and since then the first year and half was great. He was there when I needed him and things blossomed into a short lived relationship. We started to hit heads and the 1st time we had a run in was him telling me we were done as friends. Next thing I know he wants to stay as friends later. The last three run ins we had was mostly about him not coming back to me about a promise he would make or tell me he would see me over a weekend and tells me not to worry and then I wouldn't hear from him for days to weeks. I would tell him how I felt and he would brush it off or bring up that he helped me before and insists he did nothing wrong. I admit I was wrong the last two times by venting out friends who then called him out on it even though I told him I would talk to him but because I don't like to confront him on anything they did it. But even before that he was starting to get distant. I just don't know where I went wrong besides venting I guess to a mutual friend and a friend of mine who told him how they felt. What really made me upset is that I would give him space like he asked and then he'll tell me he will see me soon or when I want to move on he will tell me to wait for him. So today was the last time he said so here I am. Trying to see what else did I do wrong. Did I trust him too much? Or did I expected him to follow through with his words?
ThatJustHappened Posted April 20, 2013 Posted April 20, 2013 You didn't do anything wrong. He just didn't feel as strongly about you as you did about him. I would suggest not speaking to him anymore..he's not a good friend for you.
Author lillyrae Posted April 20, 2013 Author Posted April 20, 2013 Thanks, I learned my lesson and I will stay away from him.
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