Kat_luv Posted April 20, 2013 Posted April 20, 2013 Moved last minute,500 miles distance, told me he loves me nothing will change, he'll move back before summer. He was my first everthing. One week later breaks up with me over the phone, I had to initiate the call because hes been ignoring me said he was sorry and he couldnt do distance, that it was too hard. He started partying, drinking, smoking weed again, his sister said he changed. Told me he moved on but his friends said hes been taking it hard for a month. Near the end of the month he met a girl, got in a relationship withing two Weeks,met each others parents and MOVED IN TOGETHER after 3 Weeks of dating. He just turned 19 and hes not in school. He told me he had high standards and shes basically the complete opposite from what he described to me before we dated. He always posts about her on Facebook when he never used to use facebook and seems to have this "dgaf,its all about sex,doing my thing" kind of attitude. The first 2 months were the most painful months but im over the denial stage and wanting him back. Almost on to the third month for me and ive been getting better it just surprises me how great we were together but yet screws me over in the end and maybe even himself. Would like your opinions, is he just being irrational?his way of dealing with himself?
Echo000 Posted April 20, 2013 Posted April 20, 2013 sounds like a loser. a big. loser. Sounds like he is heading nowhere fast. Sometimes people change. Maybe he changed. Sometimes it takes something to make you see another persons true colors. Maybe you finally can see. That is for you to know! 1
Dragi3169 Posted April 20, 2013 Posted April 20, 2013 One thing I've learnd from my break up is it doesn't matter how good and perfect you feel you are for each other because at a young age like that they don't know what they want and usually get scared off its getting to serious. Your only hope is to get over them or wait it out and hope with time the change there mind
Author Kat_luv Posted April 20, 2013 Author Posted April 20, 2013 One thing I've learnd from my break up is it doesn't matter how good and perfect you feel you are for each other because at a young age like that they don't know what they want and usually get scared off its getting to serious. Your only hope is to get over them or wait it out and hope with time the change there mind Definetly not waiting it out, knowing who the new girl is I feel disgusted, & I dont get it :/ he pushed for us to get serious I was the one trying to take things easy. Id say moving in with someone just under one month of dating is serious, seriously insane.
Author Kat_luv Posted April 20, 2013 Author Posted April 20, 2013 not just seriously insane. Seriously retarded. Agreed! Maybe I dodged a bullet afterall
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