Danger88 Posted April 19, 2013 Posted April 19, 2013 There's this Mormon guy that likes me and I like him too. Our friends try to put us together, but it's like they're forcing us against our will. Since I got really pissed off I told them everything comes in the right timing. We're only in eight grade and after reading all the things on the internet about how hard it is to keep a really good relationship, I've started to have doubts in myself. At first, I didn't really care if he was Mormon or not, he was someone who always brighten my day, but what if he tries to converts me to a Mormon(I'm a very strong believer of Christian). I know all about the dating until we're 16, but I already dated three guys and broke up with them because I thought I loved two of them and one of them just broke my heart, but I just don't want to hurt people's feelings. This guy I love him more than any previous person that came into my life. He likes me, but should I be committed?
todreaminblue Posted April 20, 2013 Posted April 20, 2013 There's this Mormon guy that likes me and I like him too. Our friends try to put us together, but it's like they're forcing us against our will. Since I got really pissed off I told them everything comes in the right timing. We're only in eight grade and after reading all the things on the internet about how hard it is to keep a really good relationship, I've started to have doubts in myself. At first, I didn't really care if he was Mormon or not, he was someone who always brighten my day, but what if he tries to converts me to a Mormon(I'm a very strong believer of Christian). I know all about the dating until we're 16, but I already dated three guys and broke up with them because I thought I loved two of them and one of them just broke my heart, but I just don't want to hurt people's feelings. This guy I love him more than any previous person that came into my life. He likes me, but should I be committed? how old are you.....deb
Author Danger88 Posted April 20, 2013 Author Posted April 20, 2013 how old are you.....deb I'm currently 14.....
xpaperxcutx Posted April 20, 2013 Posted April 20, 2013 I'm currently 14..... You sound smart for your age, and i have to say, it's okay to date and hang out with each other, but avoid having any sex or intimate encounters until you are older or when you are married ( if you are ultra-religious). All in all, thank your friends for being considerate, but you don't need to force yourself into a relationship. It's better to have more friends. 3
melodymatters Posted April 20, 2013 Posted April 20, 2013 They are in EIGHT GRADE !?! That's approx 13 yrs old. I know people have crushes and movie dates and become BF &GF in junior/senior high, but it seems we have a plethora of these kids on here asking about " forever love" at these ... embryonic stages. OP,and any others still in high school, PLEASE, please, date for fun, to get to know yourself and what you like, don't take any of these relationships seriously. Use birth control if you MUST be sexually active, but it would be better to wait until you are more emotionally mature. I hate that society makes it so that my little girl friends on FB ( friends daughters, actresses's from my theatre troupe,) just give it up emotionally and physically time after time when really, all they should be doing is going to the movies or the mall and splitting a god*mn, m*therf*cking MILKSHAKE !
BrownBarbie Posted April 20, 2013 Posted April 20, 2013 Wow, 14 year old you should be a writer! I admire your articulation. 1
todreaminblue Posted April 20, 2013 Posted April 20, 2013 I'm currently 14..... 1. no one can force you into do anything you dont want too do especially friends.... 2 your parents can guide and love you and tell you what is best for you....because they have your best interest at heart 3 be a young girl...you are one so be one....have a blast make friends, follow your heart share some laughs some good times some tears and express how you really feel often to your parents....they love you.....dont feel pressured into anything dotn be in such a hurry to decide on love and grow up before you need to face the world at your age it isnt what is important........you are finding your feet and your wings.....just be you........ I am a mormon mum..... you make your choices no one can force you....dont let them try...this is anyone mormon, hari krishana buddhist.......and those choices you make, should be made with advice and caring loving support from your parents.........dont read this board and follow blindly...or follow anyone else.....talk to your parents.....huge hugs sweet girl...fly free from me to you...deb 2
Noproblem Posted April 20, 2013 Posted April 20, 2013 Your whole life is right there ahead of you, but I'm compelled to tell you that everything is about to change. No, not now, but eventually; your goals, your tastes, your ideas, your religious beliefs, political beliefs and even your choices of friends will change by time So, don't deny your self a friendship with different people from different backgrounds, it will only expand your prospect of life. You will like and love and like and love for many times, but I do advice you to never rush things and enjoy your childhood-teenage hood because you really still a child, you should enjoy your life...Loves will come anytime, but childhood will only come once ...... Remember how to plan for your future and study hard to get accepted in good colleges, I know it's still early, but what the harm in trying to have a better future? 1
PogoStick Posted April 20, 2013 Posted April 20, 2013 (edited) The only fair compromise would be for you both to turn atheist. BTW If you need to learn more about Mormons, there's a very helpful south park episode about Joseph Smith. Edited April 20, 2013 by PogoStick 1
Uncle Indy Posted April 20, 2013 Posted April 20, 2013 You shouldn't even have a relationship of any sort till 17/18. too young
todreaminblue Posted April 20, 2013 Posted April 20, 2013 A lot of women feel they need to make big decisions right this second but you always have the time to think on these things. Let it flow and decide as you go. Only with progress can you gain clarity. Also btw Mormons are Christians. she isnt a woman she is a very young woman...she is 14 to me that is still a girl...but i have a fourteen year old at home and she is young at heart i hope she stays that way for a long time........deb
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