singleman Posted September 18, 2004 Posted September 18, 2004 I think my ex gf who dumped me 6-7 weeks ago, and went to another guy immediately. I haven't had any contact with her, except to make arrangements for her to come get her belongings, etc. Anyway, I know I have to move on, but I want her to know that I would still take her back (which I know may sound stupid to some of you). I think that if she ever did want to come back with me, that she would NOT try because I think that she thinks that I would never take her back after she was with another man. So my question is, how can I let her know that I would take her back? I do not want to regret someday that I never had the guts to let her know that, but i also do not want to be pushy, needy, etc. what should I do?
netrie Posted September 18, 2004 Posted September 18, 2004 Dear singleman Just let her know how you feel. You must really LOVE her to feel so forgiving. She is so lucky to have such a wonderful man like yourself... How old are both of you? Curious. Netalia
disconcertainly Posted September 18, 2004 Posted September 18, 2004 I would not tell her that... if you do you are going to send the signal that anything she does is ok and you will always take her back no matter what. You can however no be rude or ugly and just be there...if that makes sense at all.
Author singleman Posted September 18, 2004 Author Posted September 18, 2004 Netrie - I am 36, she is 27. I feel like I should tell her, but not sure if I should. Disconcertanty - Yeah, i see what you are saying, too. I don't know what to do!!!
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