Katrina26 Posted April 19, 2013 Posted April 19, 2013 I have been dating my boyfriend for a month. He cares and will only do what I allow him to. Last week we had a conversation about sex and he said he will love to make love to me and that it will make him happy but that he will wait till im ready. Today we were laying on his bed cuddling and passionately kissing (we are always passionate) he started going up touching me till he got till my bra and then he stopped and asked me if i wanted him to stop and i replied with a kiss because i didnt want him to stop. So basically my question is like how long do you wait to ONLY TOUCH?
MoreThanThat Posted April 19, 2013 Posted April 19, 2013 How old are both of you and are you a virgin?
Author Katrina26 Posted April 19, 2013 Author Posted April 19, 2013 How old are both of you and are you a virgin? he's 22 and im 21 and yes i am.
MoreThanThat Posted April 19, 2013 Posted April 19, 2013 he's 22 and im 21 and yes i am. Even though you're 21, make sure it feels right - and that's from an emotional place and not physical! I was 16 my first time but we'd been together 9 months and knew each other since 5. I don't have any hard and fast rules now but in my 40's, I always wait at least 3 months. You can have a lot of fun without having actual sex.
Author Katrina26 Posted April 19, 2013 Author Posted April 19, 2013 Even though you're 21, make sure it feels right - and that's from an emotional place and not physical! I was 16 my first time but we'd been together 9 months and knew each other since 5. I don't have any hard and fast rules now but in my 40's, I always wait at least 3 months. You can have a lot of fun without having actual sex. I know thats what i plan to do (im ok with limited touching) but i want to wait at least 3 months or more if is possible. I had another boyfriend but i always thought he wanted to be with me just because of sex which i didnt have with him thanks God ( he asked me for sex in our first official date) however my current boyfriend didnt ask but we had a combo after a month of officially dating. But i will wait!
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