SoConfusedAndInShock Posted April 20, 2013 Posted April 20, 2013 The way i see it, they can care less for the most part.... They do everything to their benefit. Thus meaning our hurt, pain, the distraction they cause in our lives probably simply fades away within days or weeks for them. The dumpee doesn't even exist in their minds let alone for the pumper to sit around wondering how you're doing or the pain they've cause. At the end of the day, both parties will pick up the peaces and go on with their lives. The down side is that they have the head start into the "grieving" or moving on process
TearyEyedPride Posted April 21, 2013 Posted April 21, 2013 Maybe. Just not enough to want you back while you're still interested in them. So it really doesn't matter. 1
Am4Real Posted April 21, 2013 Posted April 21, 2013 As a young boy I remember being extraordinary ill and my Mother caring for me during the entire time. It was a marvelous feeling of security. I was nursed to health by my relationship with her graces and care. Metaphor: I miss my Mother and our relationship, I do not miss the illness and hope it never returns. Make sense?
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