honey2005 Posted September 18, 2004 Posted September 18, 2004 Today's my birthday!! Yay! I turn 18 at... well, I'm not sure what time, but it's sometime today:D. This morning I checked my email and I had a birthday card from my ex. It didn't say anything special, just "Hi, have a happy birthday", but the fact that he even bothered to send it confuses me. I guess he was just trying to be nice, but we had a terrible break up and he was REALLY cruel. He was with another girl the day after he broke up with me, and he's still with her (at least he was last time I talked to him, and they seemed pretty serious). After awhile I tried to be friends with him but he would say things like "How does it feel to be rejected all the time?", and other hurtful stuff. So I just gave up and stopped talking to him cmpletely. My question is should I write him back and say thanks, or just let it go and ignore the fact that I ever got it. I definitely don't want to get back together with this guy; I'm with someone else now and I am very happy, so I wouldn't be writing him back with the hopes of starting something again. I just don't know if I should thank him and see where that goes (friendship wise) or just drop it. After all, I did try to be friends with him once before.
SadAndLonely Posted September 18, 2004 Posted September 18, 2004 Ignore it. If he was a prick before, then he needs to do more than just send you a birthday card. If he wants to strike up a friendship, he'll contact you again. By the way, Happy Birthday!!
moimeme Posted September 18, 2004 Posted September 18, 2004 I agree - let it go. And have a great day!
Tony Posted September 18, 2004 Senior Moderators Posted September 18, 2004 This guy's a real jerk. What a great birthday present...having him remind you he's no longer in your life. I don't know which should be the bigger celebration, your birthday or being rid of him. Let's call it a tie.
lydiamarie Posted September 18, 2004 Posted September 18, 2004 happy birthday honey and ditto to the letting it go
Author honey2005 Posted September 18, 2004 Author Posted September 18, 2004 Aww thanks guys . I'm not gonna write him back and say thanks or anything. I'll just pretend like it never happened.
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