rahul16 Posted April 19, 2013 Posted April 19, 2013 My past: Three years ago when i was in college one of close friends used to date a girl whom I don't even bothered to talk and I barely knew her in first three years of my college.I never had slightest bit of interest in her.In my final year my close friend I had our differences and never talked again.During this time he also broke with his gf. Now this girl happened to be my project partner in my final semester.I really started to like this girl after a few days and only thought her as a friend and so did she.Even after we graduated and left college we used to hang out a lot.After a perfect and happy 5 months she was my best friend.The way she treated me made me feel like I was the luckiest person on earth.We both realized that we couldn't live without each other.She was like the perfect girl I can ever find for me.She is the girl of my dreams, but we are both afraid to say that to each other.One day I couldn't resist this feeling and said her how I felt about her, but to my surprise she said she don't want a serious relation with me.She stopped taking my call and replying to my texts.I was depressed and begged her to say why she was doing that for me.She said "Its for your best.This relation has to end at some point of time.I love you but I don't want to be in a serious relationship now."She walked away. NOW: After 3 months of great struggle I started to live my normal life again but 2 days back we ran into each other and went for a coffee.During our conversation she mentioned a guy whom she is in a relationship now. I am shocked.I am still struggling to over come the separation and could not able to think about any othe rgirl but she was happily in a relationship now. For the past two days I cant stop thinking of her.Its the worst phase of my life.I have killing myself my questions like..... will I ever love a girl again? Will I ever get girl a perfect as this girl in my life? Why did I lose her in the first place? What if I dont love any other girl ever agin? How I stop comparing every girl I meet with this girl? I tried to talk with many other girls in the last one one month but I failed. I am madly in love with this girl. How do I overcome her?.Does time really heals everthing?
siankat Posted April 19, 2013 Posted April 19, 2013 My past: Three years ago when i was in college one of close friends used to date a girl whom I don't even bothered to talk and I barely knew her in first three years of my college.I never had slightest bit of interest in her.In my final year my close friend I had our differences and never talked again.During this time he also broke with his gf. Now this girl happened to be my project partner in my final semester.I really started to like this girl after a few days and only thought her as a friend and so did she.Even after we graduated and left college we used to hang out a lot.After a perfect and happy 5 months she was my best friend.The way she treated me made me feel like I was the luckiest person on earth.We both realized that we couldn't live without each other.She was like the perfect girl I can ever find for me.She is the girl of my dreams, but we are both afraid to say that to each other.One day I couldn't resist this feeling and said her how I felt about her, but to my surprise she said she don't want a serious relation with me.She stopped taking my call and replying to my texts.I was depressed and begged her to say why she was doing that for me.She said "Its for your best.This relation has to end at some point of time.I love you but I don't want to be in a serious relationship now."She walked away. NOW: After 3 months of great struggle I started to live my normal life again but 2 days back we ran into each other and went for a coffee.During our conversation she mentioned a guy whom she is in a relationship now. I am shocked.I am still struggling to over come the separation and could not able to think about any othe rgirl but she was happily in a relationship now. For the past two days I cant stop thinking of her.Its the worst phase of my life.I have killing myself my questions like..... will I ever love a girl again? Will I ever get girl a perfect as this girl in my life? Why did I lose her in the first place? What if I dont love any other girl ever agin? How I stop comparing every girl I meet with this girl? I tried to talk with many other girls in the last one one month but I failed. I am madly in love with this girl. How do I overcome her?.Does time really heals everthing? Answers 1) Yes 2) Different. Better in some ways maybe not in others. You think she was perfect but someone who doesn't feel similarly, is not perfect for you 3)Who knows, she probably just saw you as a friend. Did you ever get intimate? 4)What if you get hit by a truck today, your numbers come up tomorrow, and the girl of your dreams moves into your area but you are now 6ft under. Ridiculous answer to match the question 5) You will at first, that is normal. you kiss a girl that looks like her, realising it doesn't make you feel closer to being with her so that is not the answer. You find a girl who lives in the same circles as your ex, but you realise that doesn't make her the same or similar enough to your ex or give you any comfort. You date some wildly inappropriate people and have great stories to tell. You start getting caught up in life again, all the while keeping an eye out for that someone special. You meet someone who gives you something your ex never did, and you didn't even realise you were missing it til you experienced it with this new person. That is where i am going to stop as that part is for you to discover...
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