westjames111 Posted April 19, 2013 Posted April 19, 2013 Okay so I haven't replied to any of my exes text for over a month now. I have been trying to move on "like she told me too" because she is with a new guy. Too make a long story short she left me for one of my friends. He lives about 3 hours away from here in our home town. Tonight as I was laying down to go to sleep she sent me a text with a picture of his bed at his house and it read... "I hope you remember this bed forever, **** you!" I am so outraged I dont think i will even sleep tonight. I havent replied but i REALLY REALLY want to. I guess I just need to calm down. I havent done anything to her and I was even talking to a friend yesterday about how I wished her happiness in life. Now I take that back!
TaraMaiden Posted April 19, 2013 Posted April 19, 2013 You really, REALLY need to change your number. 1
EmptyWalls Posted April 19, 2013 Posted April 19, 2013 Ouch. Thats hard to swallow, I agree change your number or block her (them), he is no friend. Shes only trying to cause you pain at this point. Maybe shes mad for you trying to do whats best for you and ignoring her, maybe shes having fun ripping your heart up. Who knows what craziness is going through her head your best bet is out of sight, out of mind.
Am4Real Posted April 19, 2013 Posted April 19, 2013 Not to be crude, but she honestly has the maturity of a fresh turd. 3
StraylightRun24 Posted April 19, 2013 Posted April 19, 2013 On the positive side maybe this will be the straw that finally breaks the camel's back and will lead to you finally 100% getting over her.That really was a ****ty thing for her to do! As many posters have said to others, "It looks like you really dodged a bullet!" Could you imagine her being the mother of your children down the road? YIKES! 1
mtnbiker3000 Posted April 19, 2013 Posted April 19, 2013 Holy Schnikes. That is rough!!! What a B1TCH!!!! Well, as others mentioned, try to use this to build your strength. Sometimes I just don't know about people and what they are capable of Best of luck, dude!!! 1
DM42 Posted April 19, 2013 Posted April 19, 2013 Whatever you do, DO NOT REPLY to that message. She is just baiting you, wanting you to get angry or sad, the best thing to do is not let her know that it bothered you. 1
iouaname Posted April 19, 2013 Posted April 19, 2013 That's so obnoxious and awful. Seriously, do not respond. It will piss her off more thinking that she hasn't gotten to you! 1
fancy feast Posted April 19, 2013 Posted April 19, 2013 If you can't change your number, change your mindset. She's all sorts of hung up on you, each of these messages prove it. Just kick back and watch this implosion. 2
siankat Posted April 19, 2013 Posted April 19, 2013 Looks like she's more wound up about the breakup than you! 1
ThatJustHappened Posted April 19, 2013 Posted April 19, 2013 Why in the world haven't you blocked her number yet?!?!?!
TigerCub Posted April 19, 2013 Posted April 19, 2013 I know you shouldn't reply. But it woulda been funny if you said "I'm sure you'll remember the herpes you get - because they are forever" But yeah don't reply. And if she's bothering to send you texts and pics and all that crap, that shows that she's not over the break up and she is still hung up on you. Ignoring her, it will piss her off to know that she is insignificant. 1
jjjman Posted April 19, 2013 Posted April 19, 2013 WOW what a whore! Just forget her man, you can do much better! Block her f-ing number and move on with your life. 1
TaraMaiden Posted April 19, 2013 Posted April 19, 2013 Blocking numbers doesn't always work with texts - you either need to buy an app/text blocker or send the 'text-blocker' message. Text Blocker activated. your message was not delivered. Although there can be a delay between receipt of her text and you sending the one above, it's best to do it the instant you get a message. It just reinforces the 'phukkoff' factor better...... But the best thing ever is - change your number. 1
Chi townD Posted April 19, 2013 Posted April 19, 2013 Personally, I would forward that pic and text to her folks THEN block her number. But, that's just me......
Author westjames111 Posted April 20, 2013 Author Posted April 20, 2013 Old is this girl? she is 21, but i guess the mindset of a 12 year old
Author westjames111 Posted April 20, 2013 Author Posted April 20, 2013 Thanks for all those who have replied. I didnt reply to the text as much as I wanted to. I took today to clear my mind and try not to think of it as much as possible. As far as changing my number that is not really something I want to do as I have many contacts with work, and school who wouldn't be able to contact me. Plus I have had this number for so long I dont want to have to change it just because of her. I hope she just stops it all together soon. As someone earlier said it sounds like she is more hung on me than I am her even though she is the one who has done all of this.
Echo000 Posted April 20, 2013 Posted April 20, 2013 iv been reading this read and damn man, this girl is a piece of work. Takes a unique level of immaturity and disrespect for a woman to send a man messages like that. That is not love. That is selfish, immature, hurtful stuff. This ultimately should HELP you totally get over this loser. This is my approach to life and relationships- be it romantic or between friends. If you hurt me, but you had good intentions or did not mean to, I can forgive you. But if you go out of your way to intentionally hurt me, or know something is going to hurt me and do it anyways..you are dead to me. I dont know what your approach is, but Echo knows his stuff.
mtnbiker3000 Posted April 20, 2013 Posted April 20, 2013 This is my approach to life and relationships- be it romantic or between friends. If you hurt me, but you had good intentions or did not mean to, I can forgive you. But if you go out of your way to intentionally hurt me, or know something is going to hurt me and do it anyways..you are dead to me. ^^ Not bad. I like this!! Succinct and accurate
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