Dragi3169 Posted April 18, 2013 Posted April 18, 2013 I've been going NC with my Ex now for a week and I was doing pretty good . Then this morning I woke up and was so depressed I miss her so much and wish she would text me or anything I even am tempted to text her . I feel so lonely today
Infnitysign Posted April 18, 2013 Posted April 18, 2013 it's okay to be sad and heart broken and it wont be easy it time to talk and chat with us
TaraMaiden Posted April 18, 2013 Posted April 18, 2013 One week? One week is nothing. Sweetheart, I hate to tell you, but just wait until you hit the 'one month' barrier. That's one mean son-of-a-bitch wall..... It's going to get worse before it gets better. No Contact is Cold-turkey for the heart.
Author Dragi3169 Posted April 18, 2013 Author Posted April 18, 2013 Thanks I will try to remember that. We've been broken up for 5 weeks but after texting her and only getting one word replies I was like well **** You then I won't bother you.
Hope737 Posted April 18, 2013 Posted April 18, 2013 Absolutely Dragi3169, if she wasn't giving you the time of day and was just replying with one word answers then leave her be. I too am just reaching one week of NC from my ex and although that's not a long time, I see each day of NC that passes as an achievement! I dont know what 1 month of NC is like but I bet TaraMaiden is correct in saying it's "a son of a bitch wall". But it will be worth it in the end when you climb over the other side of that wall and learn that live doesn't revolve around your ex. All the best!
DM42 Posted April 18, 2013 Posted April 18, 2013 I'm on my 6th day of NC, and am having a bad day too. I put a calendar page for April on the wall in my office and one on my door to my apartment and have a nice black Sharpie that I put an X on each day that goes by. It doesn't sound like much but it is an achievement. Focus on yourself, get out and do things that make you happy. It might be tough but there will be moments when you get lost and not be thinking about it so much, and time will pass more and more easily. We can get through this with each other's help. I know it. Post here on bad days, it just helped me.
EmptyWalls Posted April 18, 2013 Posted April 18, 2013 Stay strong, it hits you hard when you lay down at night and wake up in the morning. Try to do whatever you can to get your mind off of it. Otherwise it will drag you down all day. Stay NC its better for everyone. I recommend setting a time aside in the day to weep or suck your thumb in the fetal position as I did lol but remember before you got in the relationship with her. You were fine and didnt need her to get by, you will be again one day it just takes time.
Author Dragi3169 Posted April 19, 2013 Author Posted April 19, 2013 Thank you all you guys really help me to feel there's hope of getting over her at the end of the tunnel. And until then I will continue to post all my feelings on here
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