mallorix Posted April 18, 2013 Posted April 18, 2013 I started talking to this girl at work. I'm pretty certain she liked me, she touched my shoulder and my side and brushed against me a few times. The conversations we had were great. I did not ask her out because I am dumb. The next time I see her, which is two weeks later, we talk but there is something missing. She does not touch me but I maker her laugh. The most we talked for at a time was about a minute, mainly because she was too busy working. so there really was not a great time to ask her out. The next time she will be working again is in two weeks. She came to the bar,where I work, with a guy and a girl a few days later. Just thought I might include that. The bar where I work has a list of all the workers phone numbers. My questions are do I write down her phone number, call her and ask her out? If that is a bad idea, what can I do to rectify this situation?
Poppy fields Posted April 18, 2013 Posted April 18, 2013 lol @ because I was dumb. No, you should not take her number off a work list. That is for business purposes only. You would look creepy and desperate. Just cut your losses, and ask her out when you see her again in 2 weeks. Or, if she shows up at your work again you could ask her out then.
TaraMaiden Posted April 18, 2013 Posted April 18, 2013 The unofficial line here at LS is that it's a poor policy to go out/date a colleague. The reason is that you will see each other, every single day, and it will be a distraction from your work.The worse news is that if you break up - you will see each other every single day, and it will be a distraction from your work. You can really approach her any way you want. but don't think that it will be a good idea, because many of us will disagree with you. As numerous posts from people finding it difficult/impossible to function properly at work, with their recent break-up exes, feet away, will tell you.
Poppy fields Posted April 18, 2013 Posted April 18, 2013 The unofficial line here at LS is that it's a poor policy to go out/date a colleague. The reason is that you will see each other, every single day, and it will be a distraction from your work.The worse news is that if you break up - you will see each other every single day, and it will be a distraction from your work. You can really approach her any way you want. but don't think that it will be a good idea, because many of us will disagree with you. As numerous posts from people finding it difficult/impossible to function properly at work, with their recent break-up exes, feet away, will tell you. He works at a bar. What is he going to mess up? Maybe forgetting the cherry in the Pina Colada? 1
TaraMaiden Posted April 18, 2013 Posted April 18, 2013 Ok, wait a minute - so, I read it wrong.... I started talking to this girl at work. I'm pretty certain she liked me, she touched my shoulder and my side and brushed against me a few times. The conversations we had were great. I did not ask her out because I am dumb. The next time I see her, which is two weeks later, we talk but there is something missing. She does not touch me but I maker her laugh. The most we talked for at a time was about a minute, mainly because she was too busy working. so there really was not a great time to ask her out. The next time she will be working again is in two weeks. She came to the bar,where I work, with a guy and a girl a few days later. Just thought I might include that. The bar where I work has a list of all the workers phone numbers. My questions are do I write down her phone number, call her and ask her out? If that is a bad idea, what can I do to rectify this situation? I got the impression they worked together. I seem to be wrong. But I'm with you on the 'getting her number off the work-list' thing.
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