Wanderlust88 Posted April 18, 2013 Posted April 18, 2013 So I've basically been dumped again for apparently being unaffectionate and too independent. I don't get it! I thought being majorly lovey dovey came across as clingy which is surely a major put off. I'm not comfortable with proper PDA, which my recent ex was very keen on. Is there something wrong with me for preferring to keep things private/behind closed doors?! I mean holding hands, hugs and some kissing is fine, I'm just not too keen on massive makeout sessions in public places. Men, is this a deal breaker for you? Or have I just been involved with 2 immature men who need constant reassurance of how I feel?! 1
Uncle Indy Posted April 18, 2013 Posted April 18, 2013 Lol we would be perfect! xD. Jokes aside im the same way with pda though and whoever you were with who thought that is just immature trash. Dont worry about them and dont change the way you are. Apart from hugs, holding hands, and a kiss every once in a while i dont so anything else in public. There are guys who feel the same way you do about that stuff you were just mixed up with the wrong people
todreaminblue Posted April 18, 2013 Posted April 18, 2013 So I've basically been dumped again for apparently being unaffectionate and too independent. I don't get it! I thought being majorly lovey dovey came across as clingy which is surely a major put off. I'm not comfortable with proper PDA, which my recent ex was very keen on. Is there something wrong with me for preferring to keep things private/behind closed doors?! I mean holding hands, hugs and some kissing is fine, I'm just not too keen on massive makeout sessions in public places. Men, is this a deal breaker for you? Or have I just been involved with 2 immature men who need constant reassurance of how I feel?! If someone makes you do something you are not comfortable with.....they have issues not you..public makeout sessions are wrong on many levels....yes it should be behind closed doors its intimate and meant for two......best wishes....deb
Author Wanderlust88 Posted April 19, 2013 Author Posted April 19, 2013 Thanks guys, it's nice to hear that others are similar! I was starting to think that I'd screwed up another relationship for being strange or something!
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