eachcomingnight Posted April 18, 2013 Posted April 18, 2013 My (seemingly wonderful) LDR broke up just about three weeks ago today. While I had already told my ex that we could not be friends if we broke up, spending time on LC has really given me the guts to begin NC right away and stick to it, even when I had important news that I really wanted to reach out and share with him. Turns out that he heard the news himself, and he contacted me today. He mentioned in his email that he had been "struggling" not to stay in touch with me. I think that if it were not for all the stories people have shared here, I would have been thinking to myself "Sweet, he wants me back!!" It's so great to be able to say "and that's a breadcrumb, he hasn't explicitly said anything about wanting me back and he is perhaps fishing for me to share how I am doing." Thanks LS for making this process much easier to deal with!! I am sure I would be a total mess right now if it weren't for you all sharing your wisdom (and screw-ups) 2
Cogee Posted April 18, 2013 Posted April 18, 2013 Great to hear that you are starting things off on the right foot! I think that if the advice people give here is received with an honest mind then the only path from here on out is proper healing. In times of weakness, this place keeps you honest and also gives you the opportunity to apply other situations to your own for self-reflection.
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