amythan Posted April 18, 2013 Posted April 18, 2013 Hi there, He came back. I posted here about I guy I liked and I thought it was mutual. He lives in a different town and we were chatting all day long. He has a gf but his behavior indicated he was interested and I went with the flow. We went out and he kissed me but I clearly said that I am not interested in being his other girl. He was confused and finally he decided to stick to her. We remained friends but he continued drunken texting me and I called it quits. After a few weeks of NC today he emailed me saying that he misses our chats and asking if we could be friends. I do not even understand why. In the past I made my desires very clear and I told him that our so called friendship was not real but run by our mutual attraction. We are strangers and we have friends so why to be bothered ? I did something I am a bit ashamed of .. I said yeah let's be friends. But just to avoid the drama, explanations and to look like an *ss. But honestly I do not feel any desire of having a pen pal. Not because I have feelings for him (even if I am scared if we keep in contact these feelings can be back), or I am upset or I hate him .. just because if he is not interested I do not feel like being friends. I have real friends and we do not even see each other ! So I said yes but deep inside I plan just to reply politely if he emails me but never contact him again. And i guess it will fade naturally. He already started asking about my last weeks and i said I have to go. Am I childish ? What is the right way of handle this without drama ? Thanks you for reading !
FitChick Posted April 18, 2013 Posted April 18, 2013 So I said yes but deep inside I plan just to reply politely if he emails me but never contact him again. What if he constantly contacts you? Ignore him.
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