westjames111 Posted April 18, 2013 Posted April 18, 2013 So I have officially been on no contact with my ex for 5 weeks now. I have done so well. It was extremely hard but I have not been replying to any texts she has sent and have completely avoided anything on social media that has to do with her. I even take different routes to avoid the road that goes by her house, because I don't want to see the new guys car parked out front. Anyway I accidentally saw something tonight that I shouldn't of seen. I am in college and this bar that I am familar with was having some concert tonight that a lot of people I know were going to. I went to their Twitter page to see who was playing and there it was. The bar had re-tweeted a tweet she posted that said. "Going to The Jupiter tonight to party hard! #GettingTornUp" I got extremely angry after seeing this. Mostly because she cheated on me, left me out to dry and is completely happy now. I am trying hard to get over her and I have made really good progress it just sucks when life throws me a curve ball like this. It also makes me mad that she use to get mad at me when I wanted to drink or go out. She said she didnt to drink to have fun, when really I only go out like one every two weeks. Now she goes out several times a week and parties. The guy she is with also does drugs. It's like she left me for this other guy because she wanted to go out and party and have fun. I don't know its just a sh*tty night now. Maybe by tomorrow I will be over it.
BigTuna Posted April 18, 2013 Posted April 18, 2013 Man, that is so unfortunate you saw that tweet! It doesn't mean you're doing any less well in your NC quest, though. Let the tweet serve as further fuel to get over her. Was she ever the one for you if she's now with a bloke that does drugs? That's not classy, bet you wouldn't date a girl that does drugs. Just keep going man you'll get through this
Author westjames111 Posted April 18, 2013 Author Posted April 18, 2013 Man, that is so unfortunate you saw that tweet! It doesn't mean you're doing any less well in your NC quest, though. Let the tweet serve as further fuel to get over her. Was she ever the one for you if she's now with a bloke that does drugs? That's not classy, bet you wouldn't date a girl that does drugs. Just keep going man you'll get through this No I wouldn't date a girl like that! I will continue on and try to forget. Thanks for the reply.
Chi townD Posted April 18, 2013 Posted April 18, 2013 Me personally, I would have taken that tweet as a blessing. Imagine if you went there and you saw her. THAT would have been worse. She's with a guy that does drugs and partys hard. If she's living that lifestyle she's going to be rode hard and hung out to dry before too long. Partying that hard takes a toll and she's going to look 50 by the time she's 30. But, the thing is, some girls chase after the "bad boys". One thing I never get is if they have the rep of being a bad boy and carry themselves as a bad boy, logic will only dictate that, sooner or later, they are going to start treating her BADLY! Makes no damn sense. But, not your problem anymore. Make positive changes in your life. Start working on you! Take a vacation! Go somewhere! Take a long weekend! Get out and take a break! Decompress and re-energize! Might burn her ass if she learns that you're currently partying it up in the Bahamas and the most exciting thing she did was sit on this dude's couch smoking a bowl.
Author westjames111 Posted April 18, 2013 Author Posted April 18, 2013 Me personally, I would have taken that tweet as a blessing. Imagine if you went there and you saw her. THAT would have been worse. She's with a guy that does drugs and partys hard. If she's living that lifestyle she's going to be rode hard and hung out to dry before too long. Partying that hard takes a toll and she's going to look 50 by the time she's 30. But, the thing is, some girls chase after the "bad boys". One thing I never get is if they have the rep of being a bad boy and carry themselves as a bad boy, logic will only dictate that, sooner or later, they are going to start treating her BADLY! Makes no damn sense. But, not your problem anymore. Make positive changes in your life. Start working on you! Take a vacation! Go somewhere! Take a long weekend! Get out and take a break! Decompress and re-energize! Might burn her ass if she learns that you're currently partying it up in the Bahamas and the most exciting thing she did was sit on this dude's couch smoking a bowl. Thats funny because I have actually run into her there and it was on my birthday over a month ago, ruined my whole night. Last night when I thought about going there and trying to ruin her night, but I decided it was best not to and sat at home and tried to stop thinking about it.
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