rede2 Posted April 18, 2013 Posted April 18, 2013 Okay its been about four months, and after four months of searching the internet for answers, I've decided its time to tell you guys my story. She lived with me before anything got serious, we were casual nothing too crazy. Things picked up as she would travel and we began realizing how much we missed eachother. while this was happening I was seeing other people because like I said it was nothing serious. then it got serious. We were in love with eachother, In fact she was my first love. She IS my first love. as time progressed she began hanging out with her friends one of which was this guy who I really wasnt keen on. As most people do who are new to the emotion of love I became jealous. Not knowing what to do one day I broke up with her when I found out they were hanging out alone, and as you may be able to tell it was all downhill from there. we tried to work on it in the following weeks but my insecurities led to our relationships ultimate failure. That was december. in the following months she would start dating the guy I wasnt keen on, and she also found out I was seeing other people while she was away. she labeled this as cheating. we havent talked in a few months and she told me to leave her alone when I tried to offer the peace branch. She appears happy with this new guy, but I dont want to believe it. I want to know if theres any help for me, what I can do. I've been trying so hard to move on, and sometimes I'll succeed only to be sent back to square one as a result of a dream, or hearing something about her. I know that moving on is best, and I'm working on it, but I would also like to know, is there hope of later reconciliation?
Leegh Posted April 18, 2013 Posted April 18, 2013 I don't know, possibly you could call her or send her a note basically saying what you said in your post, and leave the ball in her court. There may be some misunderstandings, and I think you should make an attempt to find some clarity.
geegirl Posted April 18, 2013 Posted April 18, 2013 It's broken. It's done. Let it go. She's with someone else and whether you don't believe she's happy or not, it's none of your business anymore. Most likely something was already forming when she was hanging out with him. You've been trying hard moving forward and setbacks are normal when you are trying to heal i.e. dreams or hearing about her. It's not a sign to reach out to what's causing you that pain but a sign that you should try to keep away from it as best as possible. If there is any chance of reconciliation, she'll look for you. Now that she is with someone else, respect her relationship and keep moving forward.
intigo Posted April 22, 2013 Posted April 22, 2013 There is absolutely nothing you can do she is with someone else the only thing you can do is start healing. You want hope? what if i tell you you will be together after 5 years you want to wait for her? Anything can happen in this life but do not live your life waiting, if she wants you back she will let you know. And heres a little story for you i had a RS for 3 years she broke up with me after 2 years she wants to reconcile i dont after 2 years again she wants to reconcile again i dont simple as that. take care.
Author rede2 Posted April 29, 2013 Author Posted April 29, 2013 Thanks all for the info. I've been healing and I plan to keep moving forward. I'm grateful for the experience and lessons learned, and, more importantly I'm grateful for the information you all have provided.
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