What does a guy think when you ask him to a wedding?

[confused_as_usual]

Just found this site and I have a question...how do men interpret it when you invite them to a wedding? I have a friend (former coworker) and another former coworker is getting married out of state. So several months back I mentioned the wedding to him and he was excited then and now to go. However, I know he was interested in me romantically last year, I set him straight, he came to visit in the spring and everything was platonic. I told him about the Myers Briggs test and he said he wondered what it would be like if we ever got married (ok, this comment DID make me nervous -- he said this about a month ago). Too, the wedding is soon and the plan was for me to stay at his place, as hotels are very expensive in this particular city. However, he has asked me on more than one occassion if I can't stay longer than just a couple of days. To top it all off, he's never had a girlfriend or been intimate with anyone (and he is not young). Way over 30. Should I be nervous here? The last thing I want to do is to spend a lot of money going to this wedding and then have to deal with him possibly making a move on me.

 

Thanks

[UCFKevin]

It's a date.