lovinglife1 Posted April 18, 2013 Posted April 18, 2013 I don't know why I agreed, but I'm going on a date with a 23 year old tonight! Have never gone out with anyone so much younger and not sure if the same dating norms apply to his generation. Any advice?
Poppy fields Posted April 18, 2013 Posted April 18, 2013 Have fun! I met my husband when he was 24 and I was 31. He is now 31 and I am 39. We are happily married, and I have never been happier with anyone. We have so much in common. It really works for us. Ignore the age and look to the connection and matching of your maturity levels. That is what is important. 8
Poppy fields Posted April 18, 2013 Posted April 18, 2013 Also, if you can't find something you both agree sounds fun, that could be a bad sign. Hopefully you have some common interests that will make the date seemless. 1
Treasa Posted April 18, 2013 Posted April 18, 2013 Bang the hell out of him! Young guys are awesome. I'm 38 and the guy I recently broke up with is 25. 7
Poppy fields Posted April 18, 2013 Posted April 18, 2013 Bang the hell out of him! Young guys are awesome. I'm 38 and the guy I recently broke up with is 25. This is also an option. I am sure he will be reseptive. Just lightly bite his lip when you are kissing so he knows you mean business.
KraftDinner Posted April 18, 2013 Posted April 18, 2013 I'm eleven years older than my fiance. He doesn't seem to mind. Just treat it as any other date. 4
Author lovinglife1 Posted April 18, 2013 Author Posted April 18, 2013 Just got home from date; it was great! He's lighthearted and not too serious like most older guys I date! And he kisses well, but didn't try to come in for sex or fondle me! Lol. At first I thought he must just want sex if hes going for an older woman like me, but he seemed genuinely interested and was a complete gentleman. Awesome chemistry! Can't wait for the next date. 9
MoreThanThat Posted April 18, 2013 Posted April 18, 2013 My last relationship - which was on/off for 5+ years - was a 14 1/2 year age difference. Things were great with us but I was more alpha than he was so ultimately we ended things for good on excellent terms. 2
MrCastle Posted April 18, 2013 Posted April 18, 2013 Can't get better than young guys. I say this because I am one, not because I date them. 6
MoreThanThat Posted April 18, 2013 Posted April 18, 2013 Can't get better than young guys. I say this because I am one, not because I date them. I'm in a giggly tired mood and that made me laugh way too much! 2
MrCastle Posted April 18, 2013 Posted April 18, 2013 I'm in a giggly tired mood and that made me laugh way too much! I had to follow it up with my second sentence. Saying "can't get better than young guys" and just leaving it like that would have greatly altered the meaning 1
MoreThanThat Posted April 18, 2013 Posted April 18, 2013 I had to follow it up with my second sentence. Saying "can't get better than young guys" and just leaving it like that would have greatly altered the meaning No kidding, but I have to say there are definite benefits to young guys when you are in your mid 30's up 1
Archgirl Posted April 18, 2013 Posted April 18, 2013 Who cares dude!! Go for it! younger guys are the bomb! They are super eager to please, have massive sex drives with a low recovery time and aren't usually totally jaded. I saw a 21 year old stripper last year. We had fun! Just enjoy it!
rocketman122 Posted April 18, 2013 Posted April 18, 2013 Bang the hell out of him! Young guys are awesome. I'm 38 and the guy I recently broke up with is 25. Then I can say that older women suck. cause some older women I was intimate in bed with were horrible. which kills the myth that older women have more experience certainly isnt true. if youre a great lover, it has nothing to do with a persons age. some were great and others were less, which shows age has nothing to do with a persons performance in bed. I can certainly say that im a fantastic lover today and would not go back to 23-25 today because I am more eager to please today (eating p-ussy, making sure she a few o's before im done) and can easily hold much longer than I did when I was younger. im more sexually open and willing to try anything and the best part is I can hold for almost 6 minutes haha your statement is based specifically on 1 or two guys but I slept with many older women and the case just isnt true. so age isnt relevant to a persons performance in bed. men or women. 1
Treasa Posted April 18, 2013 Posted April 18, 2013 Can't get better than young guys. I say this because I am one, not because I date them. 1
ascendotum Posted April 18, 2013 Posted April 18, 2013 Just do a catch & release. Let the young fella go. Its no different than older men getting with a junior. You'll just end up sucking the youth out of him like some bad horror film.
soccerrprp Posted April 18, 2013 Posted April 18, 2013 This sickens me...you ladies and much younger men! If I were a guy, you'd be all over me about being a perv., typical, etc. ! ....nah, just joking! Go for it! Younger guys have a reputation for being great in bed...if they are. There are young guys who are not. Oh, shoot, just go for it! I need to get back OLD site and change my profile to indicate that I'm looking for ladies up to 15....eh, 20 years younger. I hear that the young ladies are great in bed..... 1
KraftDinner Posted April 19, 2013 Posted April 19, 2013 People are people. Some are good in bed, some aren't. The last guy I was with long-term was younger and believe me...it wasn't about sex. His drive was very low. I briefly dated an older guy (like 6 years older than me) and he was good in the sack -- but somewhat inexperienced...he was just naturally good. And older. I think it's kind of odd to always assume OW/YM relationships are only about sex. It doesn't offend me or anything. It just seems odd. If you like each other, hang out. If you don't, don't. This is the rule for relationships of any age. 1
Feelin Frisky Posted April 19, 2013 Posted April 19, 2013 Just got home from date; it was great! He's lighthearted and not too serious like most older guys I date! And he kisses well, but didn't try to come in for sex or fondle me! Lol. At first I thought he must just want sex if hes going for an older woman like me, but he seemed genuinely interested and was a complete gentleman. Awesome chemistry! Can't wait for the next date. Good for you. . BTW 34 is prime.
Geiss Posted April 19, 2013 Posted April 19, 2013 I had the opposite where I am 37 and went out with a 23 year old girl. I pretty much got the same advice. Just have fun with her and that's about it. As if she is nothing but a sex toy. And obviously that is not my style if you have read some of my other threads. It went downhill anyways but why is everyone giving such terrible advice? Well maybe it's just me. How do you know the guy isn't a virgin. Even if he said he isn't he could be lying. Maybe that's why he didn't come in. Don't assume every guy is just going to allow themselves to give in when a woman offers them sex. I have said no. And to an older woman btw. When I was younger. Pretty much the same situation. I was in my twenties, she was in her thirties. Then again she scared the hell out of me. Over 40 partners. No thanks.
mortensorchid Posted April 19, 2013 Posted April 19, 2013 Glad you had a good time. I for one am not against the prospect of younger men just to see what it's like on that side. I've dated older and younger and my age. I am interested in people and finding out who they are and what they are about, I say it's about who they are rather than finding a difference between me and others.
Author lovinglife1 Posted April 28, 2013 Author Posted April 28, 2013 Went on 2nd date with the younger guy last night and it was even better than the first! Conversations and time together are light and easy-going, the way it should be when you first meet someone! (No pressure, doesn't feel like an interview, etc.) We also laugh a lot which is so important to me. He walks so proud next to me, constantly grabbing my hand or waist, pulling me close, as if I'm this hot supermodel and he wants everyone to know he's with me! We have date three on Wednesday night, but he wants to come over tomorrow to turn on my A/C! Did I mention he's a great kisser? I could definitely get used to this! Are all younger men this eager to please and easy to date??? 1
Silly24 Posted April 28, 2013 Posted April 28, 2013 Have fun and don't expect much.... Who knows...it may lead to something...or not...it's all good. 1
MrCastle Posted April 28, 2013 Posted April 28, 2013 Went on 2nd date with the younger guy last night and it was even better than the first! Conversations and time together are light and easy-going, the way it should be when you first meet someone! (No pressure, doesn't feel like an interview, etc.) We also laugh a lot which is so important to me. He walks so proud next to me, constantly grabbing my hand or waist, pulling me close, as if I'm this hot supermodel and he wants everyone to know he's with me! We have date three on Wednesday night, but he wants to come over tomorrow to turn on my A/C! Did I mention he's a great kisser? I could definitely get used to this! Are all younger men this eager to please and easy to date??? Short answer: Yes Long answer: I don't know, everyone is different. But I am 1
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