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Ok I am 21 and my ex is 20...we are broken up and now she is seeing someone new and stays at his house.

Her and I have only done serious things with eachother. However, if someday she wants to get back...and I still want her...should I be able to forgive her if she did have sex with someone else? I believe if you really someone you can forgive them no matter what. So I was just wondering what everyone thought..PLEASE respond if you can..

 

 

Also she has been seeing this guy for a month...and she leaves to study abroad in France in January for 5 months...so what do u all think about that...girls and whoever give me some advice on that one....THANKS!

 

 

 

 

Chris

 

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Chris, the two of you are not together... So what she chooses to do with whom ever is her business.

 

IF the two of you should decide to get back together at a later time, I don't know that it's really about finding "forgivness" of decisions and choices she made for HERSELF when the two of you were not together Chris, because the decisions were NOT about you or made with the intent to wrong you...

 

What if YOU decide to sleep with someone else besides her? Do you think that would be her business and that she would need to find forgivness for you sleeping with someone else?

 

This isn't about forgivness in my opinion Chris.... it's more about acceptance and letting go.

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