How should i approach her?

[Swansea]

Ill keep this story short.

 

Theres a girl i like in college, we are strangers to each other.

 

The semester is almost over in a few week and ill only see her a few times until then, like 6 or 7 more times.

 

Due to sitting chart only way to talk to her as i see it is to directly ask her out in a nice way when we all get out of class.

 

So i have two questions?

 

How should i approach her? I seem to worry too much about how i will make a first impression, im only taking the shot because she seems to be of a very introverted and shy nature like me, based on what ive seen in the class and her Facebook.

 

and my second being, my next try to ask her out will be on thursday, i failed today as i chickened out because an unexpected turn arose. But if i fail again id have to wait almost an entire week to try again, so i was even thinking of sending her a facebook message but that just wouldnt make me feel good inside about actually being able to ask her out, nor would i think it would be convincing?

 

So should i be patient and man up as hard as it might seem sometimes, and if i fail should i not do something like facebook message her?

 

I know this is going to seem goofy and childish but i can't help but posting this...

 

Ive always had this smooth gentleman idea of my self, i have the voice, look, and character, and typically despite being shy, i always get praise for being a nice classy guy, so i was trying to model myself after what my childhood hero did in this video ffs... Seems charming and like something i could pull off if i wasnt so nervous because of inexperience...

 

 

And i say this because everytime ive ever gone on a date or been in a nice relationship with a girl where we were close, they approached me and always saw me as the classy guy, and i get asked, why dont you talk more, and when i went to my school's prom its because i got asked out by a hot chick although we went on a few dates and it went awful..So my inexperience and nervousness i see as the only barriers to what could be an interesting proposition imo..

Edited April 17, 2013 by Swansea

[PrayingDaily]

Balls up and go for it! She'll be less impressed if you Facebook it. Worst possible outcome is her saying no. That might suck but would better then you never asking her! Be yourself but do try to step out of your comfort zone. She might really appreciate that!