oannamarie Posted September 17, 2004 Posted September 17, 2004 I posted a topic about a week ago where my husband was abusive and I had feelings for another man. I left my husband and have been seeeing this other guy on a regular basis who work nearby my office. I saw him today while I was on my lunch break with another girl holding hands. I smiled at him and said hi. I was not concerned he was holding her hand, for all I new they were just friends but it did make me feel uncomfortable. When I said hi he just passed me up. He took another couple of steps told her by and then started walking toward me saying hi. When he finnaly got to me and she was gone he stated "dont worry she is not my other girlfriend". I told him it doesnt matter to me. I dont want him to think that I am a overly jelous person because I am not. I guess I feel uncomfortable because our relationship is new and I am not sure who this other girl is. Should I confront him or let it go. I am upset because I could have made things work with my husband but left for him and this guy know that. Do you think I am overracting?
Barby Posted September 17, 2004 Posted September 17, 2004 So just so I'm clear...You're married and seeing this guy? (if this is the post I'm thinking of) you're still with your husband...but can't decide what to do? (am I wrong if so sorry please inform me..) If this is the case and you're messing with both of them....you really have no right or any reason to comfront him about her. Most male/female friends don't hold hands in public...at least I would hope if they are just "just friends" that they would be "hands off" but anyway..if you have 2 men in your life it's kinda not right for you to expect him to only have you.
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