kanova Posted April 16, 2013 Posted April 16, 2013 Hello people, this is my first post here! And I've had this doubt for some time. When I was younger, girls would check me out a lot, and making eye contact with strange girls was easy and happened quite a lot. But now that I'm older (23 years) and more attractive and stylish, girls appears to get really shy around me. I mean, if I'm walking past a girl in the street, most of them will just look down as soon as they notice me. And sometimes, a girl is looking at me, and she looks down quickly as soon as I look at her. This makes my job a lot worse, since I don't get a lot of indicators that the girl is interested. Most of these girls are pretty, and I would like to talk to them. Do you think this shyness is a good sign for my to approach or is it like a "leave me alone, don't talk to me please" shyness? Thank you!
ses Posted April 16, 2013 Posted April 16, 2013 Some girls act shy around guys they find attractive; others are far more bold in their approaches. Some girls avoid eye contact; others maintain it. If you're interested in a girl just take the time to know her and then ask her out. Be open and confident. You'll never know if you don't suck it up and take the chance.
spiderowl Posted April 16, 2013 Posted April 16, 2013 For a reason I'll never understand, as I'm not your number 10 beauty or anything, I used to get hassled quite a lot when out and about. Guys would try to talk to me just about anywhere and try to catch my eye in the street. I felt quite threatened by it and deliberately avoided catching their eye in case they saw it as a come-on. Without knowing how physically attractive you are, it's hard to say what's happening in your case, but I do know that I used to avoid looking at guys because it always led to being approached and I didn't know what they wanted and felt threatened by it. In other words, you can't assume they are attracted, though of course that's always a possibility. Not every woman is as reserved and defensive as I was.
FitChick Posted April 16, 2013 Posted April 16, 2013 Guys would try to talk to me just about anywhere and try to catch my eye in the street. I felt quite threatened by it and deliberately avoided catching their eye in case they saw it as a come-on. That's why I always wear sunglasses.
todreaminblue Posted April 16, 2013 Posted April 16, 2013 Hello people, this is my first post here! And I've had this doubt for some time. When I was younger, girls would check me out a lot, and making eye contact with strange girls was easy and happened quite a lot. But now that I'm older (23 years) and more attractive and stylish, girls appears to get really shy around me. I mean, if I'm walking past a girl in the street, most of them will just look down as soon as they notice me. And sometimes, a girl is looking at me, and she looks down quickly as soon as I look at her. This makes my job a lot worse, since I don't get a lot of indicators that the girl is interested. Most of these girls are pretty, and I would like to talk to them. Do you think this shyness is a good sign for my to approach or is it like a "leave me alone, don't talk to me please" shyness? Thank you! speaking from experience....i only get shy with guys i really am into......soemtimes i can be open and joke around with them.....but on another day....i cant control how happy i am to see them and i get shy because i dotn want to expose the butterflies or happiness..........so.....to me....approach talk be open and that is a shyness helper.......for the woman...and probably for you too....deb
Author kanova Posted April 17, 2013 Author Posted April 17, 2013 For a reason I'll never understand, as I'm not your number 10 beauty or anything, I used to get hassled quite a lot when out and about. Guys would try to talk to me just about anywhere and try to catch my eye in the street. I felt quite threatened by it and deliberately avoided catching their eye in case they saw it as a come-on. Without knowing how physically attractive you are, it's hard to say what's happening in your case, but I do know that I used to avoid looking at guys because it always led to being approached and I didn't know what they wanted and felt threatened by it. In other words, you can't assume they are attracted, though of course that's always a possibility. Not every woman is as reserved and defensive as I was. I rather not post pics here, but girls really open up when I approach them and show I'm not what she thought I was. A lot of girls tell me they thought I had a girlfriend. Can I ask you one question? How did you acted towards a guy you were interested in? speaking from experience....i only get shy with guys i really am into......soemtimes i can be open and joke around with them.....but on another day....i cant control how happy i am to see them and i get shy because i dotn want to expose the butterflies or happiness..........so.....to me....approach talk be open and that is a shyness helper.......for the woman...and probably for you too....deb Thanks! Your answer helped me. But you act this shy only with guys you already know and kind are into or all guys you find really attractive (even the ones you don't know nothing about)?
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