hpjunke Posted April 16, 2013 Posted April 16, 2013 I'm 33 years old and I guess I can't see it . Everyone says I did a good job and all but I often wonder what makes a girl interested at this age? Is family oriented a big big deal?
ses Posted April 16, 2013 Posted April 16, 2013 Every woman is different; no woman's preferences will be alike. It's difficult to make generalizations of an entire group. Personally I look for emotional/financial stability, a family-oriented guy, a person with whom I click with and share mutual interests, and of course a man who I found sexually attractive. There are many other factors but those are some things. Talk to women you're interested in and take it from there. 2
Treasa Posted April 16, 2013 Posted April 16, 2013 I personally look for a guy who can use sniper rifles in video games that we play (I suck at using them), a guy who has a good zombie preparedness plan, and a guy who can **** all night long. I'd like to say I'm kidding, but...I'm not. Oh, honesty is good, too. 6
mortensorchid Posted April 16, 2013 Posted April 16, 2013 Hmmm ... It's different for everyone, but I can tell you what I think makes a man an interesting / good catch: 1) Job 2) Interests (in other than work and his family) 3) Social efforts (he does not like to sit at home and let someone else take the lead. He gets out and does things with his time and makes time for a social life. Loners are not good friends or lovers.) 4) Stability (mental that is) 5) Not into drugs or alcohol 6) Has a good personality (good conversationalist) 7) Shows interest in others around him (including me, I have had some who are clearly "all about me" and do not really care about what others are doing). 8) Planner for the future (even if it's what you're doing over the weekend verses years down the road) 9) Attractiveness Now ask me if all the ones in the past have been like this, of course I would have to say no. After trial and error I would have to say that I have ended up with a lot who were loners (and I found out pretty quickly why they were). But that's what I would want in a bf. No one is perfect of course but I would want those qualities in a man, or one that would make an effort to be like this.
Poppy fields Posted April 16, 2013 Posted April 16, 2013 Must love Pearl Jam and must not mind my calling him ''Ed" in bed. 2
debber01 Posted April 16, 2013 Posted April 16, 2013 Must love Pearl Jam and must not mind my calling him ''Ed" in bed. Yeah, who wouldn't want to do Eddie Vedder? Lol. Seriously, keep the sex talk to a minimum. Innuendo is more than enough. We know you like it. We like it too, but don't be so blatant about it.
Esoteric Elf Posted April 16, 2013 Posted April 16, 2013 PM if you wish for a comprehensive list of nearly everything a guy needs to make himself a not interesting catch.
Treasa Posted April 16, 2013 Posted April 16, 2013 Yeah, who wouldn't want to do Eddie Vedder? Lol. Seriously, keep the sex talk to a minimum. Innuendo is more than enough. We know you like it. We like it too, but don't be so blatant about it. Hahaha, I love blatant sexual talk.
PogoStick Posted April 17, 2013 Posted April 17, 2013 Must love Pearl Jam and must not mind my calling him ''Ed" in bed. If only you were single Notice my avatar?
Poppy fields Posted April 17, 2013 Posted April 17, 2013 If only you were single Notice my avatar? Yes, I did.
zebracolors Posted April 17, 2013 Posted April 17, 2013 a guy who has a good zombie preparedness plan, Ideally about 37 plans.. Agree it does vary with the woman. He could share all of the girl's interests and hobbies, but if that 'chemistry'/attraction isn't there, well, he'll probably just end up friendzoned. Although course, sometimes attraction does develop later after she gets to know him, I kind of feel like this has sometimes been my experience at least. 1
HoneyBadgerDontCare Posted April 17, 2013 Posted April 17, 2013 I'm 33 years old and I guess I can't see it . Everyone says I did a good job and all but I often wonder what makes a girl interested at this age? Is family oriented a big big deal? The same thing that makes girls interested at any age: confidence and game.
Estate Posted April 17, 2013 Posted April 17, 2013 Every woman is different; no woman's preferences will be alike. It's difficult to make generalizations of an entire group. Personally I look for emotional/financial stability, a family-oriented guy, a person with whom I click with and share mutual interests, and of course a man who I found sexually attractive. There are many other factors but those are some things. Talk to women you're interested in and take it from there. First and best answer right here. Every woman is different. What is important to one will not be to another. You shouldn't be trying to change who you are to suit all people. But if you are asking these questions then chances are you are unsure who YOU are. You need to decide what that is... if you have to write it down on a piece of paper... do! Write down who YOU are and what YOU want and what YOU see as important in relationships and in life. This worked wonders for me. I dated all sorts of girls only to have them not work out and blamed myself so much years ago... but then I began to figure out what I want and realised the reason those relationships failed was that we were never the same people.
Lani Posted April 17, 2013 Posted April 17, 2013 Stability. Within yourself and who you are, as well as having your life together. This would be the main thing women looking to date a guy your age would look for. It's what I'd expect.
Author hpjunke Posted April 18, 2013 Author Posted April 18, 2013 These were all good responses the ones seems though I like the ones that don't like me lol .. I guess I just gotta get out there a little more to
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