Jordan185 Posted April 16, 2013 Posted April 16, 2013 First off I'm 20 and she is 19 we are both in a college class that is only on Tuesdays and Thursdays and it has been 3 months. I don't have her number and we havent hungout. In class and before class we always sit by eachother and talk to eachother. In fact I'm the only person she will really make an effort to talk to in the class. I figure she is shy because of this. She had me smell a sample of lotion she had on before. We always walk together after class gets out and she keeps good eye contact, smiles, and engages in the conversation. I even emailed her to study before and she resonded back saying we should try and get together and it had a:) and exclamation points. I assumed she was single because on Valentines day she asked if me "Isnt is valentines day?" I figure if she had a boyfriend she would know that and also she hasn't mentioned any dates or guys besides friends. I figured I'd ask her to hangout. So I asked her when we were going to hangout. She got all red in the face and had an extremely nervous looking smile. Overall I think I caught her off guard. She responded with "I dont know when did you want to?" I said whenever schools done because I thought she was pretty cool. She said "Ya we have survived some crazy people together. Just email me sometime." She was red the entire time and just seemed really uncomfortable. So today in class she was kinda acting weird she act on the same table but in front of me this time didn't really look back and didnt say much either. She eventually did look back and smile but not for long. She has me baffled what is going on?
Treasa Posted April 16, 2013 Posted April 16, 2013 I'm assuming she's shy. Don't wait too long. Ask her to go do something. Dinner or whatever crazy thing you young'ns are doing nowadays. A lot of girls like men who have balls and can actually ask them out.
salparadise Posted April 16, 2013 Posted April 16, 2013 It's impossible to know for sure, but based on what you said I'd guess she's shy and interested in you. You need to make a move. She'll lose interest if you wait too long. When a woman gives you the come hither signal, come hither.
veggirl Posted April 16, 2013 Posted April 16, 2013 She is shy and waiting for you to make a move. When asked when you wanna hang out, you should have suggested a day. I mean when school is out? Isn't that like a month away? Ask her for a weekend.
Divasu Posted April 16, 2013 Posted April 16, 2013 Guy: "Hi mystery girl, would you like to get together to study sometime?" Girl: "Yes, lets!! :bunny:" Guy: "So, when are we going to hangout?" Girl: "teeheheheheh, yes, when is good for you!!" Guy: "Let's hangout in a month or so from now." Girl: "okay, just email me sometime then". 1
Author Jordan185 Posted April 16, 2013 Author Posted April 16, 2013 It wasnt as clear cut as that divasu. She seemed really uncomfortable not all giggly like she had been caught off guard
LexiB Posted April 16, 2013 Posted April 16, 2013 First off I'm 20 and she is 19 we are both in a college class that is only on Tuesdays and Thursdays and it has been 3 months. I figured I'd ask her to hangout. So I asked her when we were going to hangout. She got all red in the face and had an extremely nervous looking smile. Overall I think I caught her off guard. She responded with "I dont know when did you want to?" I said whenever schools done because I thought she was pretty cool. She said "Ya we have survived some crazy people together. Just email me sometime." She was red the entire time and just seemed really uncomfortable. So today in class she was kinda acting weird she act on the same table but in front of me this time didn't really look back and didnt say much either. She eventually did look back and smile but not for long. She has me baffled what is going on? You have me baffled. Why did you postpone hanging out with her until after school's out? Isn't that still another month away?? Seems like you made things awkward by making plans to make plans instead of just asking her out directly. I mean you both gotta eat right? Just set up lunch date and take it from there. 1
Author Jordan185 Posted April 17, 2013 Author Posted April 17, 2013 Actually my college is out in like a week not a month
Opto Posted April 17, 2013 Posted April 17, 2013 I say you pursue hanging out with her ASAP. She said yes. You are at the point where you need to break the ice with a first date or a hangout session. Once you guys are out of the classroom and in a different setting (dinner, movies, ect.) you can focus on getting to know each other more. Make sure when you ask her this time you have something in mind. Find some cool event going on around campus or something fun in the area that you want to check out. She is just nervous because she likes you, but doesn't know where to go from there. Lets put this in sports terms. You passed her the ball (asked her to hang out) She pass you back the ball ("i don't know when do you want to?") You took the ball and punted it as far as you could. 3
LexiB Posted April 17, 2013 Posted April 17, 2013 Actually my college is out in like a week not a month That's better. But you still made plans to make plans instead of setting up an actual date. Telling her that the two of you 'should hangout' sometime 'whenever school is over', is not the same as asking her out; at best, you've presented her with an idea. Set up a real date with her now. e.g., "Hey, ____, would you like to ______________, next Thur/Friday/Sat?" Then get her number and tell her you'll call her a few days before to discuss details (what time, where to meet etc). Easy & effective. 1
CryForNoOne Posted April 17, 2013 Posted April 17, 2013 If anything you are the mystery. You ask her out with no date or plan in mind and when she says yes you are wondering what to do next??? Pick a place and time and close thee deal!!!
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