IloveLucy401 Posted April 16, 2013 Posted April 16, 2013 I was just curious if the things men say during sex are true or are they just caught up in the moment? My man is very caring/affectionate in bed, says certain things and I'm not sure if thats really how he feels or if he just feels so good at the moment that he will just say anything
Leegh Posted April 16, 2013 Posted April 16, 2013 It's just one of those situations where only time will tell. If he was not drinking that would be a good sign, as sometimes people say things they would not say if they had not been drinking. It does indeed sound like he likes you, so just take a day at a time.
foreverandalways Posted April 16, 2013 Posted April 16, 2013 I guess it depends on what he's saying. However in my experience, i've known men to be very simple beings. They say what they mean, and they mean what they say. There's no point in overthinking it or dissecting what they say. Because what they say is really it. There's no hidden agenda.
KatZee Posted April 16, 2013 Posted April 16, 2013 If he's saying certain things, and the following up with actions that match those words OUTSIDE the bedroom, you know he's being sincere. 2
crude Posted April 16, 2013 Posted April 16, 2013 Usually it's garbage. Women aren't really princesses, they don't deserve to have tens of millions of dollars worth of things handed to them, they're not special, and a man doesn't really want to be there for her when there's a big game on TV.
insertnamehere Posted April 16, 2013 Posted April 16, 2013 Does he say these things any other time when you're alone? A good rule of thumb is to just toss out all comments made anytime around anything coital.
GorillaTheater Posted April 16, 2013 Posted April 16, 2013 "Oh my f*cking GOD" may not in fact mean that he's devoutly religious, if that's a concern. 6
veggirl Posted April 16, 2013 Posted April 16, 2013 If he doesn't walk the walk outside of sex then no he doesn't mean what he is saying, he is just caught up in the moment. I don't believe ANY lovey stuff a guy says when drunk or on his way to climax unless we are in a real, committed, loving relationship!!
foreverandalways Posted April 16, 2013 Posted April 16, 2013 Usually it's garbage. Women aren't really princesses, they don't deserve to have tens of millions of dollars worth of things handed to them, they're not special, and a man doesn't really want to be there for her when there's a big game on TV. Who says this during sex? Who says this to a woman ever? I've dated many guys and no one said anything of the sort. And I usually just watch the big game (or any game) with them. Football preferably. Go Colts. 2
tbf Posted April 16, 2013 Posted April 16, 2013 Who says this during sex? Who says this to a woman ever? I've dated many guys and no one said anything of the sort.Umm...getting called princess isn't as unusual as you might believe.
mortensorchid Posted April 16, 2013 Posted April 16, 2013 The only things I have experienced is dirty talk during the deed. And that usually is what they are thinking anyway in or outside of the act.
Poppy fields Posted April 16, 2013 Posted April 16, 2013 Usually it's garbage. Women aren't really princesses, they don't deserve to have tens of millions of dollars worth of things handed to them, they're not special, and a man doesn't really want to be there for her when there's a big game on TV. You mean we are not going to live happily ever after? That was just a story? I am crushed.
Treasa Posted April 16, 2013 Posted April 16, 2013 Who says this during sex? Who says this to a woman ever? I've dated many guys and no one said anything of the sort. And I usually just watch the big game (or any game) with them. Football preferably. Go Colts. Right there with you, except go PACK. 1
Treasa Posted April 16, 2013 Posted April 16, 2013 Umm...getting called princess isn't as unusual as you might believe. During sex? Outside of roleplaying Super Mario Bros? ("Your princess is in another castle, if you get my meaning.") Seriously? 1
tbf Posted April 16, 2013 Posted April 16, 2013 During sex? Outside of roleplaying Super Mario Bros? ("Your princess is in another castle, if you get my meaning.") Seriously?As a term of endearment, before, during and after or even in platonic relationships like father to daughter. Has no one ever called you "princess"?
Treasa Posted April 16, 2013 Posted April 16, 2013 As a term of endearment, before, during and after or even in platonic relationships like father to daughter. Has no one ever called you "princess"? Yes, a guy I dated, and the look I gave him made him never do it again. It never happened during sex, though. My father and I don't have a good relationship.
Ninjainpajamas Posted April 16, 2013 Posted April 16, 2013 I was just curious if the things men say during sex are true or are they just caught up in the moment? My man is very caring/affectionate in bed, says certain things and I'm not sure if thats really how he feels or if he just feels so good at the moment that he will just say anything You shouldn't take everything he says to heart, because much of it can definitely just be in the moment and/or exaggerated, especially early on in the relationship. So just because a man is very affectionate/caring in bed, doesn't mean he's "in love with you" If that's what you're asking...that could just be the way he is, some men just love women and others are super excited to have a naked girl in their arms, especially if they're really into you physically. Never just believe everything a man says because they are "simple", any man with two peanuts for a brain knows what a woman want's to hear. When he starts doing things outside the bedroom that show a lot of commitment and backup what he says in the bedroom, then you can start to believe it....slowly.
tbf Posted April 16, 2013 Posted April 16, 2013 Yes, a guy I dated, and the look I gave him made him never do it again. It never happened during sex, though.The nick doesn't bother me and has been used by more than one man. It's no different than goddess, dream girl, kitten and many other terms of endearment, as long as they're not the nonsense terms like lambykins, coochie woochie or others that are fraught full of nausea. My father and I don't have a good relationship.Sorry to hear this.
foreverandalways Posted April 16, 2013 Posted April 16, 2013 If a guy called me a princess and told me I deserve millions, etc. I would be able to tell he was full of sh*t. Plus I view "princess" as a concecending term that construction workers would call me as I'm walking down the street. And they dont get a 2nd look. And the roleplaying mario princess thing had me DYING in my office. Shouldn't be here while i'm at work. 2
Treasa Posted April 16, 2013 Posted April 16, 2013 The nick doesn't bother me and has been used by more than one man. It's no different than goddess, dream girl, kitten and many other terms of endearment, as long as they're not the nonsense terms like lambykins, coochie woochie or others that are fraught full of nausea. Sorry to hear this. Oh, it's ok. I should say we didn't have a good relationship, but it's better now. OMG, I call boyfriends cutey wutey poofie poos! God....actually, this may be why they break up with me sometimes.
Treasa Posted April 16, 2013 Posted April 16, 2013 I don't know. Getting called kitten might be ok, but some of the others would feel disingenuous to me. Now, mistress is one that I like. 1
foreverandalways Posted April 16, 2013 Posted April 16, 2013 I don't know. Getting called kitten might be ok, but some of the others would feel disingenuous to me. Now, mistress is one that I like. I get called a Goddess in our D/S cuckold relationship. It's hawt.
tbf Posted April 16, 2013 Posted April 16, 2013 OMG, I call boyfriends cutey wutey poofie poos! God....actually, this may be why they break up with me sometimes. Noooooooo....anything but those. Just goes to show how subjective, preferences will be. As far as anything said during sex, it should be taken with a grain of salt. 2
Treasa Posted April 16, 2013 Posted April 16, 2013 I get called a Goddess in our D/S cuckold relationship. It's hawt. Ok, I can see that one in the heat of passion.
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