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Just wondering...

 

Are you curious about what your ex(es) are doing with their life?

Would you consider dating them again after a period of time?

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Treasa Established Member

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No and no. I don't actually have anything against them, though.

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KatZee Established Member

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No and No.

 

Couldn't particularly care any less about him than I do now. And if I ever considered dating him again in the future, I am giving myself permission now to beat myself in the head with a 2x4.

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A little curious

 

I would definitely consider dating my EX again, but she needs to get herself in a better financial and emotional state for that to happen. It's also only been a year since our break-up after a 7 year relationship. I know she regrets it from what I hear through her friends, but it's still way too early -- I still gotta focus on me anyways!

veggirl Established Member

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No and no.

 

I don't wish any ill-will towards any exes or anything tbh I don't have the energy to care or wonder about what they are up to etc. I have too many other things going on and what they are doing in their lives is really...irrelevant to me. I mean if I think about it then yes I hope they are happy etc but do I care enough to actually find out? No.

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Emilia Established Member

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Just wondering...

 

Are you curious about what your es(es) are doing with their life?

Yes and I contact them and ask them

 

Would you consider dating them again after a period of time?

No

soccerrprp Established Member

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Okay I changed my original answer (dang you Emilia!). Yes and also do ask how one or two are doing and possibly yes to one ex in getting back together. Possibly. A ton of personal demands would have to be met for me to get back with one ex I'm thinking about. It will involve legal contracts, blood pacts and a little arse kissing! :) oh, she's one of the exes that i'm still in contact with...:) what a humorous and eventful mess I live in.....:)

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Emilia Established Member

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Okay I changed my original answer (dang you Emilia!). Yes and also do ask how one or two are doing and possibly yes to one ex in getting back together. Possibly. A ton of personal demands would have to be met for me to get back with one ex I'm thinking about. It will involve legal contracts, blood pacts and a little arse kissing! :) oh, she's one of the exes that i'm still in contact with...:)

 

Oh yeah, how come?

soccerrprp Established Member

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Oh yeah, how come?

 

[cough cough] would rather not talk about it! :):lmao:

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Treasa Established Member

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...Ok, I totally feel like I missed something and now I'm all curious.

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Emilia Established Member

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...Ok, I totally feel like I missed something and now I'm all curious.

 

Yeah me too :D

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soccerrprp Established Member

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...Ok, I totally feel like I missed something and now I'm all curious.

 

Short of sounding like a fibber, I choose not to disclose any more than I have to. You know more than you think, Treasa! :):rolleyes:

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soccerrprp Established Member

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Yeah me too :D

 

I'm in denial right now. Have a few things going on and lot swirling through my mind concerning an ex. It's been a very interesting 2-weeks! :)

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Treasa Established Member

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You know more than you think, Treasa! :):rolleyes:

 

God, I love these words. Usually I'm told just the opposite. :D

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Emilia Established Member

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I'm in denial right now. Have a few things going on and lot swirling through my mind concerning an ex. It's been a very interesting 2-weeks! :)

 

Looking forward to reading about it in due course

Emilia Established Member

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God, I love these words. Usually I'm told just the opposite. :D

 

:laugh::laugh:

FitChick Established Member

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I've looked up a few on Facebook and LinkedIn out of curiosity. Not interested in reconnecting though.

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Sometimes yes (I contact their parole officers) And no, absolutely not.

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Yes- I talk to most of my exes. In fact I'm friends with most of them. We catch up whenever we run into each other and generally work to maintain goodwill. (Granted this is not all of my exes...there are a few I'd rather eat non-lethal doses of poison than run into again. )

 

And yes. I would consider dating at least one of my exes again- but only if a lot of time has passed (read:YEARS), and they have done a lot of personal growth.

 

But honestly, seeing as my current partner wants to get engaged soon, I don't see the second question impacting my life really. :p

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Hmmm, in a world of Facebook, I don't see how most people wouldn't be curious.

 

Yes, I get curious about what they are up to. This was someone you use to have a relationship for.

No, I am not interested in re-connecting.

It was weird though, I was single for a very long time. As soon as I started dating someone, I had a couple ex-boyfriends contact me out of no where.

Treasa Established Member

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I could be roused to be interested if they sent me a message saying, "Girl, I just won the lottery and I want to give you half, no strings attached."

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Disenchantedly Yours Established Member

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I could be roused to be interested if they sent me a message saying, "Girl, I just won the lottery and I want to give you half, no strings attached."

 

LOL.... you made me laugh Treasa.

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candie13 Established Member

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Am I curious about them? Yes.

Do I take any actions into finding out ? None. No fb, no linkedin. I have ended all of my previous relationships on civil terms, so whenever I run into them, I say hi and we chat.

 

My big ex of 7 years keeps in contact - invents silly excuses to text.

 

The last guy i was seeing before my curent date is the exception to the rule - I sometimes IM him, other times he IMs me. We sometimes meet for coffee - like once every two months. Chill.

 

Will I ever date any of them again? Nope, not one. There's a reason things didn't work out in the first place. I'm a firm believer in fresh starts, as opposed to reheated soup :).

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Well...up until very recently, all my exes and even a girl I dated were my facebook friends so I knew exactly what was going on with them and NO, I would not date them again if I were single.

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My exes have gone down quite diverse paths. One got married, had a kid, seems happy. One got engaged (for the third time) and is a successful chef in Chicago. Another became a Zumba instructor.

 

On the other hand, some have messed up pretty hard. One girl got married and divorced lesd than a year after we broke up. And the queen of screwups is currently in federal prison on a felony drug trafficking conviction. So, quite the mixed bag for me.

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