Revolver Posted April 16, 2013 Posted April 16, 2013 In regards to personality, I've noticed when a man says that he's "nice" with a "good" personality(but has no success with women) no one believes him and they say things to the effect of "well if you were really nice you would've found someone". Or just outright call him a liar. But if a woman makes a thread and says pretty much the same thing and has the same level of success with the opposite sex people almost never question her story and instantly feel sorry for her. I don't really get it. I see it time and time again with thread after thread, and not just on this website. Can someone explain this to me? It has to be one of 2 things Either A. We believe women tell the truth more and men are more prone to lie B. we believe its impossible or highly unlikely for a man to have a great personality and still have little to no romantic success with women When it comes to looks both men/women quickly get questioned and aren't believed when they say they're really attractive but struggling. But when it comes to personality I've noticed it's extremely one sided
man_in_the_box Posted April 16, 2013 Posted April 16, 2013 It usually only gets to the point of suspicion and disbelief when its the same posters coming up with the same questions over and over againt. Irrelevant of which gender they are. IME neither men or women who come with a problem to the board are treated with the rolling-eyes attitude. There's been plenty of male and female posters that DO get treated that way the moment they start sounding like a tape recorder.
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