Grohall Posted April 16, 2013 Posted April 16, 2013 So who has dated a woman 30 ish years younger? What did you expect from her? I am considering dating a man 30 years older The things I am having a hard time thinking through is this. I have children the same age as his grandchildren. His child is my best friend. Also do I shave? Not shave? Does he really expect me to act 50? I'm not immature, a widow actually. Not that losing someone makes me automatically mature, I have handled it well. But my father ,is only 51..... Are we nuts? We have a lot in common, we both feel this chemistry , this pull.... Am I just a fling? He isn't the fling type. I'm very nervous, I haven't dated in 12 years
intrepid Posted April 16, 2013 Posted April 16, 2013 I would say go for it. Do what makes you happy! Otherwise you will live your life full of regrets. One small suggestion if you do happen to go along with this, never go into a retail store and tell the associate that you are a cougar and this is your lover. Seriously, I've had that happen to me before, and it is very awkward haha.
ExpatInItaly Posted April 16, 2013 Posted April 16, 2013 If you like him and feel a connection, go for it and enjoy your time together. Why not? But I'm confused about the shave/not-to-shave question...what do you mean?
soccerrprp Posted April 16, 2013 Posted April 16, 2013 Oh, no way for me! 10 is as wide a difference I would go. I'm still very active, physically, sexually and have two very young children. Need someone who can keep up with me and my children for many years to come! Oh, I'm in my early 40s, so age does make a difference. 3
MidwestUSA Posted April 16, 2013 Posted April 16, 2013 Shave. Please. Everything. Face. Legs. Arms. Pubes. Not sure what you are getting at?
january2011 Posted April 16, 2013 Posted April 16, 2013 (edited) What are your relationship goals? What are his? Do you just want companionship or are you looking to re-marry and have children? Are you compatible in this respect? How do you feel about his having "been there done that"? Would you be happy that you wouldn't get many "firsts" with him? Chemistry is great for the initial stages of dating but, as you probably know from your previous marriage, shared life goals and values are some of the elements that are required to sustain an LTR. With regard to shaving and how you act, why not ask him what he prefers? Doesn't mean that you have to abide by his preferences but at least you'll get answers that are more relevant to your situation. Edited April 16, 2013 by january2011
CryForNoOne Posted April 16, 2013 Posted April 16, 2013 Funny how every time the "guy" in this scenario asks the same exact question, the response is overwhelmingly "Creep!!!" "Perve!!!" Reflect on that ladies...
rocketman122 Posted April 16, 2013 Posted April 16, 2013 I think the OP was wondering about the genital shaving because probably in his time the women would not shave and he might be used to that. I personally love a hairy vagina. au natural, as long as its trimmed when it gets to the thighs, I dont care how bushy it is. even if it goes to her azzhole. and wearing a tiny micro thong, man im in heaven-hot! everywhere else, should be shaved though. why do I have a feeling this is a troll post though.
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